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Been a while since I've been properly on here, and I still don't quite know whether or not I'm back. I was advised to just talk for a bit to you guys on here, so yeah... I just don't know where to start. There's been so much going on. The past year's been.... Well, difficult. A year and four days ago, my husband and I got C19 for the first time. We'd been practically isolating for 2 years, and that was for my sake, really, with my iffy health. Turns out though, my perfectly healthy husband got Long Covid, and was hit hard by it. His mind just went for a while, (They call it brain fog, but it was more like living with someone with senile dementia. It was that bad, and he can't remember the bulk of those first months of illness) which was thankfully helped by temporary use of an antidepressant to fix the burnt out/damaged neurons, but the extreme fatigue, muscle pain and whatnot, well. He's still on his way to recovery. This also meant the tables were turned: He was my carer, and now I had to be his. I went grocery shopping on my own, in spite of my anxiety, which meant ruining the muscles in my lower back (seeing a physical therapist), and, well.. There's only so much I could do. Being what I am (a mess), our home wasn't fit for visitors for a long time. Still not quite, really. With Kornelis out of the running, and me being unable to keep up much on my own, well... It's was clean, but it was chaos. I spent my time doubling down on all LC research I could find, got Kornelis into an experimental treatment that did speed up his recovery a bit until he plateaued, and he's slowly starting to work again, 2,5 hours a day, for three days a week, at present. In the meantime, kidneystones really got to me. I thought I was doing well, after being told that stones are usually calcium-oxalate, and hey, you can fix the oxalate component with a carnivore diet... No oxalates in that! My migraines got better as I went full carnivore, not even having side salads anymore, my blood sugars were amazing, I felt mentally better than I had in a long time, no more IBS and what have you... And about half a year after the first of many, many kidneys stones came up, I was told, as if it was of no consequence, that my stones were completely comprised of uric acid. Which basically means I got them from *animal protein*, not from plant-oxalates. I'd been growing them like mad, my right kidney a vertiable gravel pit. And I was loving the carnivore diet, as it made me feel so healthy and clear. I stopped, and tried to balance things out with veg, an lots of sodium bicarbonate. But then I had another few things to deal with: The C19 vaccinations caused bladder pain and made me unable to eat certain foods (especially tomatoes are a nightmare), and the C19 infection that floored my husband, actually got to me too: He wasn't the only one with Long Covid, he was just worse than I was and it took a while for me to clue in that the constant fatigue was coming from somewhere. Not to mention... The weight gain. Over the last year I've been steadily gaining weight, while I might not have been on carnivore anymore, I was still on a ketogenic diet. I've had C19 a multitudes of times since then, as I keep getting it from all the therapists and health center visits we've had.... We went from not going anywhere for two years to several appointments a week, and no amount of desinfectant kept the virus at bay in those waiting rooms. I lost count at some point, but I think it's been 8 infections in the past year, for me. Kornelis dodged the last two, thankfully.
So.... That said... A few months ago my mom had a COPD attack, and while they did a thorax x-ray they discovered a tumor with a little pal in her lung. Normally they'd just take out the entire lung, as with the tumor up top and the metastasized little b****r a little farther down, that was the sensible thing to do. But not with already COPD-damaged lungs. She'd be unable to breathe, on top of being 100% unable to survive surgery, as her heart and lungs can't withstand anesthesia. What followed was intense radiation therapy, with the aim of just killing off everything in there. So far, the treatments seems to be worse than the cancer, as mom's in the hospital again (she's there all the time now, and hates it), in extreme amounts of pain and lots of difficulty breathing, and from what we're gathering, it hasn't had the effect we were hoping for. Nothing official yet, that's for an oncology appointment tomorrow, but... We're bracing ourselves. To a point where I've started making a list of people to invite to the funeral, should it come to that. (I have to keep busy, that's just where my morbid mind goes.). Honestly, I can look into her medical file online, and while I need a doc to interpret properly what the test results mean, well... It just really, really doesn't look good, and while I haven't told mom (like I said, I am not qualified to interpret anything I've read), she told me yesterday what she feels is going on inside her... And it seems like she's spot-on. With all this going on, I've started eating my emotions in the past few months. They're still there, so it's not helping one iota, and it's still pretty low carb, but.... The weight is piling on. A little bit in my face, not on my arms or legs, but you guessed it... It's practically all abdominal fat, and it's getting into my liver and kidneys again. I know what I should be doing, not walking to the cupboard for nuts every 5 minutes, and to the fridge for extra dark chocolate every ten... Doing one or two meals a day would see me through this, probably, though it's hard to keep my kidneys happy as autophagy means acidic urine... Assuming it's all just down to the LC and emotional eating, and not adding perimenopause in the mix, which I suspect may be a factor (and HRT isn't an option due to my migraine-treatments).
I know how all this works. Even if there are other factors at play, I know what I have to do. I'm just so horribly sad and feeling useless to help anyone I love, all the time. I define my worst episodes of depression as an absolute lack of hope, and while this has been going on, hope's started to be spread very thin indeed.... Call it non-existent, rally. Kornelis is still slowly recovering and needs my help, while we heard yesterday that he might lose his current position, and he really loves his job. My mom's just trying to stay alive daily and I can't zap tumors myself. Between my kidneystones, back- and hip issues, my migraine medication being unavailable and the other stuff I'm on now making my rheumatism flare, I feel like I'm not capable of anything. I'm so very, very tired and I can hardly sleep. Kornelis' uncle is dying of cancer and we're trying to be there for him and his lovely wife, but there's only so much we can do. Everything is pain, everything is feeling helpless and useless to do anything for the people I/we care about.
So yeah. Nuts. Chocolates. Doing everything I know I shouldn't. So this past week I've gotten new scales, as the old one seem to be on the fitz (I'd love to believe I'm 80 kilo's now, but I think 86 is more realistic. Which is what the old one kept swinging between, 5 minutes apart!), so I'll be popping some batteries into that this morning. I know what I should be doing, I'm just terrified it'll make my kidneys worse again. I am afraid to leave the house without enough morphine to floor a horse. And, and, and... I know, it's all excuses. It's just really hard to find a balance between the foods I can still eat (migraines, diabetes, bladder pain, Hashimoto's, Sjögrens and kidneystones are really throwing a wrench in!) and trying to lose weight while feeling wretched and eating little bits too often. I'm trying. And maybe being back on here will help. I know what I should be doing, and maybe going over those things with newbies again, will help me get back on the straight and narrow. Ironically enough, it'd be so much easier if I could just go back to the meat-fish-poultry-eggs regime, as it was a cinch and tasty to keep up, but... Not an option. D***ed kidneys. I'll have to get it sorted somehow. A little going-over-the-basics regularly might help. It does make me feel like a fraud, but maybe listening to myself preach some more, I'll be able to start practicing it again properly, too, if that makes sense. So do forgive me for being a hypocrite. I know what I should do, I know what would help others as well... I'm just having a hard time adhering to it for the time being. Sorry.
Love,
Jo, who still feels quite unstable at the moment so isn't quite sure whether this is a good idea.
Been a while since I've been properly on here, and I still don't quite know whether or not I'm back. I was advised to just talk for a bit to you guys on here, so yeah... I just don't know where to start. There's been so much going on. The past year's been.... Well, difficult. A year and four days ago, my husband and I got C19 for the first time. We'd been practically isolating for 2 years, and that was for my sake, really, with my iffy health. Turns out though, my perfectly healthy husband got Long Covid, and was hit hard by it. His mind just went for a while, (They call it brain fog, but it was more like living with someone with senile dementia. It was that bad, and he can't remember the bulk of those first months of illness) which was thankfully helped by temporary use of an antidepressant to fix the burnt out/damaged neurons, but the extreme fatigue, muscle pain and whatnot, well. He's still on his way to recovery. This also meant the tables were turned: He was my carer, and now I had to be his. I went grocery shopping on my own, in spite of my anxiety, which meant ruining the muscles in my lower back (seeing a physical therapist), and, well.. There's only so much I could do. Being what I am (a mess), our home wasn't fit for visitors for a long time. Still not quite, really. With Kornelis out of the running, and me being unable to keep up much on my own, well... It's was clean, but it was chaos. I spent my time doubling down on all LC research I could find, got Kornelis into an experimental treatment that did speed up his recovery a bit until he plateaued, and he's slowly starting to work again, 2,5 hours a day, for three days a week, at present. In the meantime, kidneystones really got to me. I thought I was doing well, after being told that stones are usually calcium-oxalate, and hey, you can fix the oxalate component with a carnivore diet... No oxalates in that! My migraines got better as I went full carnivore, not even having side salads anymore, my blood sugars were amazing, I felt mentally better than I had in a long time, no more IBS and what have you... And about half a year after the first of many, many kidneys stones came up, I was told, as if it was of no consequence, that my stones were completely comprised of uric acid. Which basically means I got them from *animal protein*, not from plant-oxalates. I'd been growing them like mad, my right kidney a vertiable gravel pit. And I was loving the carnivore diet, as it made me feel so healthy and clear. I stopped, and tried to balance things out with veg, an lots of sodium bicarbonate. But then I had another few things to deal with: The C19 vaccinations caused bladder pain and made me unable to eat certain foods (especially tomatoes are a nightmare), and the C19 infection that floored my husband, actually got to me too: He wasn't the only one with Long Covid, he was just worse than I was and it took a while for me to clue in that the constant fatigue was coming from somewhere. Not to mention... The weight gain. Over the last year I've been steadily gaining weight, while I might not have been on carnivore anymore, I was still on a ketogenic diet. I've had C19 a multitudes of times since then, as I keep getting it from all the therapists and health center visits we've had.... We went from not going anywhere for two years to several appointments a week, and no amount of desinfectant kept the virus at bay in those waiting rooms. I lost count at some point, but I think it's been 8 infections in the past year, for me. Kornelis dodged the last two, thankfully.
So.... That said... A few months ago my mom had a COPD attack, and while they did a thorax x-ray they discovered a tumor with a little pal in her lung. Normally they'd just take out the entire lung, as with the tumor up top and the metastasized little b****r a little farther down, that was the sensible thing to do. But not with already COPD-damaged lungs. She'd be unable to breathe, on top of being 100% unable to survive surgery, as her heart and lungs can't withstand anesthesia. What followed was intense radiation therapy, with the aim of just killing off everything in there. So far, the treatments seems to be worse than the cancer, as mom's in the hospital again (she's there all the time now, and hates it), in extreme amounts of pain and lots of difficulty breathing, and from what we're gathering, it hasn't had the effect we were hoping for. Nothing official yet, that's for an oncology appointment tomorrow, but... We're bracing ourselves. To a point where I've started making a list of people to invite to the funeral, should it come to that. (I have to keep busy, that's just where my morbid mind goes.). Honestly, I can look into her medical file online, and while I need a doc to interpret properly what the test results mean, well... It just really, really doesn't look good, and while I haven't told mom (like I said, I am not qualified to interpret anything I've read), she told me yesterday what she feels is going on inside her... And it seems like she's spot-on. With all this going on, I've started eating my emotions in the past few months. They're still there, so it's not helping one iota, and it's still pretty low carb, but.... The weight is piling on. A little bit in my face, not on my arms or legs, but you guessed it... It's practically all abdominal fat, and it's getting into my liver and kidneys again. I know what I should be doing, not walking to the cupboard for nuts every 5 minutes, and to the fridge for extra dark chocolate every ten... Doing one or two meals a day would see me through this, probably, though it's hard to keep my kidneys happy as autophagy means acidic urine... Assuming it's all just down to the LC and emotional eating, and not adding perimenopause in the mix, which I suspect may be a factor (and HRT isn't an option due to my migraine-treatments).
I know how all this works. Even if there are other factors at play, I know what I have to do. I'm just so horribly sad and feeling useless to help anyone I love, all the time. I define my worst episodes of depression as an absolute lack of hope, and while this has been going on, hope's started to be spread very thin indeed.... Call it non-existent, rally. Kornelis is still slowly recovering and needs my help, while we heard yesterday that he might lose his current position, and he really loves his job. My mom's just trying to stay alive daily and I can't zap tumors myself. Between my kidneystones, back- and hip issues, my migraine medication being unavailable and the other stuff I'm on now making my rheumatism flare, I feel like I'm not capable of anything. I'm so very, very tired and I can hardly sleep. Kornelis' uncle is dying of cancer and we're trying to be there for him and his lovely wife, but there's only so much we can do. Everything is pain, everything is feeling helpless and useless to do anything for the people I/we care about.
So yeah. Nuts. Chocolates. Doing everything I know I shouldn't. So this past week I've gotten new scales, as the old one seem to be on the fitz (I'd love to believe I'm 80 kilo's now, but I think 86 is more realistic. Which is what the old one kept swinging between, 5 minutes apart!), so I'll be popping some batteries into that this morning. I know what I should be doing, I'm just terrified it'll make my kidneys worse again. I am afraid to leave the house without enough morphine to floor a horse. And, and, and... I know, it's all excuses. It's just really hard to find a balance between the foods I can still eat (migraines, diabetes, bladder pain, Hashimoto's, Sjögrens and kidneystones are really throwing a wrench in!) and trying to lose weight while feeling wretched and eating little bits too often. I'm trying. And maybe being back on here will help. I know what I should be doing, and maybe going over those things with newbies again, will help me get back on the straight and narrow. Ironically enough, it'd be so much easier if I could just go back to the meat-fish-poultry-eggs regime, as it was a cinch and tasty to keep up, but... Not an option. D***ed kidneys. I'll have to get it sorted somehow. A little going-over-the-basics regularly might help. It does make me feel like a fraud, but maybe listening to myself preach some more, I'll be able to start practicing it again properly, too, if that makes sense. So do forgive me for being a hypocrite. I know what I should do, I know what would help others as well... I'm just having a hard time adhering to it for the time being. Sorry.
Love,
Jo, who still feels quite unstable at the moment so isn't quite sure whether this is a good idea.