Worried about husband

Bills_Wife

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Very new to all this and need some help.For the past year or so my husband has been getting more and more tired.
Been to docs and had various blood tests,doc said all ok.I sent off for a code free glucose monitor and fasting blood glucose these past mornings has been 5.5 or near on the other mornings.Every Saturday night he has a drink and lots (and I mean lots) of white bread. This morning his BG was 11,but as it's been normal and this is only once a week that he eats and drinks like this should I be worried? also he gets very hot (just on Sats) and can't have any quilt on in bed. I have seen this coming for a long time now, the weakness and tiredness, but he wouldn't give up his one night a week treats.We eat very healthy all week with low carbs
I am going to check every morning now. He is 60 and a teacher with not much exercise and about two stone overweight and has had a knee replacement a few months ago so has been more sedentary.
Thank you
Christina
 

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Could be sleep apnoea perhaps? That can make you tired during the day, and sweat a lot too during the night. It can affect blood sugar too. Does he have difficulty breathing or sometimes stop breathing during the night?
 
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I wish I'd had someone spotting the warning signs for me, but I'd advise you not to worry - just tell your Bill that he can either continue as he is and face the consequences of ever increasing blood glucose levels or he can decide that you are going to enjoy his retirement and make the most of his pension.
You are doing your best for him, and the testing is a good idea - but perhaps you should test what Saturday nights are doing to the reading before he goes to sleep.
He should be over the surgery by now - for most people new knees mean an increase in activity and going back to doing things they have been unable to do for a while. Is there anything you used to do which could be taken up again? Could you find something new to do?
I have sleep apnoea, and a CPAP machine sorted that out - sourced through my GP. Without it I snore terribly, except for the times I stop breathing, so it is a great relief to be able to plug myself in for a good night's sleep.
Beer and bread are very high carbohydrate foods, and as time goes on they will be having more and more effect. I am 66 now, and lowering my BG levels has helped a lot to make me feel better, but now I have to eat very carefully in order to keep my numbers normal. An early warning would have helped me a lot.
 
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@Bills_Wife

Hello Christina and welcome to the Forum :) Here is the Basic Information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask more questions when you need to and someone will be pleased to help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you'll find well over 235,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

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Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

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People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

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There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:
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Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

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The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
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  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
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That would be pretty normal blood glucose levels for a for a non diabetic after having a lot of bread and drink and as his usual fasting blood glucose is in the 5's the rest of the time and the tests he has had have been ok it does not look like he has diabetes so no need to stop his Saturday night treat . As it is only Saturdays night he gets these symptom then it is probably related to the drink he has then
 

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Hi every one
Very new to all this and need some help.For the past year or so my husband has been getting more and more tired.
Been to docs and had various blood tests,doc said all ok.I sent off for a code free glucose monitor and fasting blood glucose these past mornings has been 5.5 or near on the other mornings.Every Saturday night he has a drink and lots (and I mean lots) of white bread. This morning his BG was 11,but as it's been normal and this is only once a week that he eats and drinks like this should I be worried? also he gets very hot (just on Sats) and can't have any quilt on in bed. I have seen this coming for a long time now, the weakness and tiredness, but he wouldn't give up his one night a week treats.We eat very healthy all week with low carbs
I am going to check every morning now. He is 60 and a teacher with not much exercise and about two stone overweight and has had a knee replacement a few months ago so has been more sedentary.
Thank you
Christina

Welcome :)

Did the doctor test your husband's blood sugar? If they did, do you know what test was done and what the result was?
 

Resurgam

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Eating a low carb diet could be masking diabetes through the week - I am sure that I have been diabetic for a long time as now that I am eating my normal low carb diet as for the last several decades, my readings are normal, but whenever I have been instructed to eat a 'nomal' diet I felt so unwell.
 

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Hi every one
Very new to all this and need some help.For the past year or so my husband has been getting more and more tired.
Been to docs and had various blood tests,doc said all ok.I sent off for a code free glucose monitor and fasting blood glucose these past mornings has been 5.5 or near on the other mornings.Every Saturday night he has a drink and lots (and I mean lots) of white bread. This morning his BG was 11,but as it's been normal and this is only once a week that he eats and drinks like this should I be worried? also he gets very hot (just on Sats) and can't have any quilt on in bed. I have seen this coming for a long time now, the weakness and tiredness, but he wouldn't give up his one night a week treats.We eat very healthy all week with low carbs
I am going to check every morning now. He is 60 and a teacher with not much exercise and about two stone overweight and has had a knee replacement a few months ago so has been more sedentary.
Thank you
Christina
I feel this man is in denial. We all go through this to some extent. What concerns me is that sooner or later he will get hit hard by this condition. I made that same mistake and it cost me dearly. He appears to be displaying symptoms and it is not good. His doctor needs to warn him of the consequences and soon. He needs to become aware, yet how do you convince someone who just does not want to know? Keep us informed, if we can help then so be it. You can't do this alone.
 
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