Your goal is the same as mine - health. I think you hit the nail on the head - from many doctors' perspective, short and long-term complications from high BG is much more acceptable than hypos.
Continue to do what you know is right for your health. I highly recommend Dr. Bernstein's "Diabetes...
Dr. Bernstein offers a fill-in-the-blank template to give your doctor. It's an appendix in his book, “Diabetes Solution” - if you haven't read the book, I highly recommend it. He outlines the detriment of high BG for recovery and specifies a normal diet rather than diabetic for greater choice in...