My son is 8 and was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at 15 months so has never really known any different. Up until now he has never had an issue with school and his friends are used to him testing his blood. He went into yr3 in September 2013 and on the first day was sent home as he said he felt ill and wouldn't eat his lunch but as soon as he got home he began to eat it. The next 2 weeks were then a struggle each day to get him in with each morning when it was time to go in he would say he had tummy pains. This then passed and he was ok for a couple of weeks until one week after the October half term when it started again. We were getting him in, although somedays dragging him there and school were saying once he was in he was ok until it was time to eat and he now refuses to eat in school simply saying he is not hungry. The school try and get him to eat and have been brilliant but he still refuses. There is no issue when he is at home or at the weekend but he is now saying he feels sick going to Taekwondo and football practise.
The last week has got so bad to the point that i can not get him dressed no matter how calm and encouraging i am or how much i shout. I know this sounds ridiculous but at the age of 8 i cant simply put him in the car and drive im there or force his clothes on. The school is helping and he understands the importance of eatting, he says some of his friends are mean to him but it sounds just like silly name calling and he says they do it to each other and he will play with these children. The only thing he will say is that the work is hard (he does struggle with writing and spelling) and that he can't do it. When i have spoken to the school they have said that whilst some of them are not at the same level as others there is not a major issue with his work, that they do not think he is being bullied but that it maybe more around having to eat. I am at my wits end, has anyone else experienced this?
The last week has got so bad to the point that i can not get him dressed no matter how calm and encouraging i am or how much i shout. I know this sounds ridiculous but at the age of 8 i cant simply put him in the car and drive im there or force his clothes on. The school is helping and he understands the importance of eatting, he says some of his friends are mean to him but it sounds just like silly name calling and he says they do it to each other and he will play with these children. The only thing he will say is that the work is hard (he does struggle with writing and spelling) and that he can't do it. When i have spoken to the school they have said that whilst some of them are not at the same level as others there is not a major issue with his work, that they do not think he is being bullied but that it maybe more around having to eat. I am at my wits end, has anyone else experienced this?