Hi Malc
Rest assured, you don't need to reduce the size of your meals. You cut down on the carbs and increase the protein and fat to compensate. Or, if you can't take too much fat, there are plenty of low-carb, low-fat eaters around here (such as Cugila) who will point the way. Read around the Low-carb forum, and have a look at the Recipes section. You can snack on cheese, cold meat, veg and the lower carb fruits, and the protein content of your meals will mean you never feel hungry.
It seems hard at first - I love bread and potatoes, but now they have to be an occasional treat built into my eating style. But you do get used to it, and you'd be surprised how much sheer pleasure you can get out of meat, fish and fresh vegetables. 'Diet' is not the same as 'slimming diet' or 'weight-loss diet'. It's all part of your new diabetic lifestyle, and it doesn't have to be restrictive (apart from carbs) or horrid.
Once you begin to know your way around the carb content of food, picking the right stuff becomes automatic, and quite easy.
Looking back on these posts, it looks as if we all jumped on you a bit, and if you feel 'got at' I'm sorry
Didn't mean to!
I've found in a short time that everyone on here cares, and is only too willing to help, having been there themselves. There is an awful lot to learn, but it's all on here somewhere.
If you follow the ideas recommended on here, test, and keep a record of what you've eaten and your test results, you'll really see some good results by the time you get back to see the nurse - and won't she be surprised
Unfortunately, not all our doctors and nurses seem to know enough about diabetes; I don't think they get a lot of training in it unless they specialise, and even then they sometimes seem to be a bit behind the times! Also there's the fact that this is definitely not a one-size-fits-all disease - we're all individuals.
If you've any worries, you can always ask on here!
Viv