The wife is disabled through the same thing two crumbling discs with the nerve bundle, sciatica nerve, trapped, constant pain, not allowed to work, can't get comfortable, on all sorts of meds to offset the pain, twitches, rash and menopause to boot! Doing anything is so difficult and tiring.
Won't operate because of really high chance of permanent irreversible damage.
She is on a large morphine dosage.
She has some reasonable control of her diabetes!
Another battle! Another day!
Best wishes