Hi Carol,
I have 1 son who is T1, but i know of another Mum on the forum with 2 daughters who are both T1, i'm sure they'l be plenty along to help you and give you all the advise and support you need. I can only imagine the confussion, upset and worry that you are going through right now, it's bad enough having one child, but you now have 2 as well as your hubby. I'm sending lots of (((hugs))) hang in there and stay strong, remember to eat and rest during the day when you can, otherwise you'l make yourself ill with worry, and your son really needs you right now. Take care, there are many here for you including myself.
Suzi x