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<blockquote data-quote="jjraak" data-source="post: 2411911" data-attributes="member: 493719"><p>I'd agree with a few others, stress & worry</p><p></p><p>Both brought to the fore if your recently diagnosed and/ or trying to get your head around some aspects of being diabetic </p><p></p><p>If it helps had issue ages back, (much younger then.)</p><p>Genuine 1st time...and omg, how it impacted me.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite14" alt=":arghh:" title="Arghh :arghh:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":arghh:" /></p><p></p><p>Newish relationship, early days.</p><p>Bedroom one night was...uh uh oh dear <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite61" alt=":sorry:" title="Sorry :sorry:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":sorry:" /></p><p>"That's never happened before <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite69" alt=":wideyed:" title="Wide Eyed :wideyed:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":wideyed:" />..honest "</p><p></p><p>But to "prove" myself .<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p>We took advantage of others rooms / locations, no problem ...phew .<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p><p></p><p>And then back in the bedroom..oh dear <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite61" alt=":sorry:" title="Sorry :sorry:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":sorry:" /></p><p></p><p>That mental worry reinforced the mental worry.</p><p>A self fulfilling prophesy <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite11" alt=":rolleyes:" title="Roll Eyes :rolleyes:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":rolleyes:" /></p><p></p><p>Don't worry about things .oh so easy to say </p><p>And almost impossible to do, until your body/mind let's you.</p><p></p><p>Could be more to it, but I doubt the worry helps </p><p></p><p>Maybe. .</p><p>Pressure off, not tonight Josephine type thing and just enjoy some intimate time.. </p><p>is one of the options I have seen.</p><p></p><p>May be of use, & worse way to spend an evening with someone you love.</p><p></p><p>As for being sorry .mmh </p><p>Sure you won't be the last bloke to ever have such issues,</p><p></p><p>And sure your aware, but for the lady, there are other ways to show you care & make her happy, that make her the centre of the moment.</p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p><p>Impressed how composed you are dealing with this. </p><p>wish I'd been so composed back then <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite15" alt=":bag:" title="Bag :bag:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":bag:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jjraak, post: 2411911, member: 493719"] I'd agree with a few others, stress & worry Both brought to the fore if your recently diagnosed and/ or trying to get your head around some aspects of being diabetic If it helps had issue ages back, (much younger then.) Genuine 1st time...and omg, how it impacted me.:arghh: Newish relationship, early days. Bedroom one night was...uh uh oh dear :sorry: "That's never happened before :wideyed:..honest " But to "prove" myself .;) We took advantage of others rooms / locations, no problem ...phew .:D And then back in the bedroom..oh dear :sorry: That mental worry reinforced the mental worry. A self fulfilling prophesy :rolleyes: Don't worry about things .oh so easy to say And almost impossible to do, until your body/mind let's you. Could be more to it, but I doubt the worry helps Maybe. . Pressure off, not tonight Josephine type thing and just enjoy some intimate time.. is one of the options I have seen. May be of use, & worse way to spend an evening with someone you love. As for being sorry .mmh Sure you won't be the last bloke to ever have such issues, And sure your aware, but for the lady, there are other ways to show you care & make her happy, that make her the centre of the moment. Good luck. Impressed how composed you are dealing with this. wish I'd been so composed back then :bag: [/QUOTE]
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