Hi Nicola,
I have 2 Type 1 daughters (aged 14 and 7). Both are now on pumps having previously been on 4+ injections a day.
What can I say? We would not go back to injections now, it is much more flexible on the pump and much more discreet - when out and about at restaurants etc, no-one notices you dialling up a bolus on the pump. Also it is one needle every 2-3 days instead of 4+ needles every day, that has to be better, doesn't it, I don't know how the nurse can be so dismissive. Yes, it does hurt sometimes, but no more than an injection, and it happens far less often. There are insertion devices for most pumps now that 'shoot' the needle in, which we have found really good. And usually the needle comes out leaving a soft plastic cannula under the skin.
It seems from what I gather that in the UK that some hospitals are more 'pro-pump' than others. Here in Gloucestershire they are quite 'pro' now, altho' a few years ago it was a different story. It really depends on the consultant. Age has no bearing on it, here they have put toddlers less than 2 year old on the pump and it works very well, and virtually from diagnosis too.
It is a lot of work 'up front' with the pump, getting it set up with the correct ratios etc. You also have to be more vigilant as they have no background insulin and so in the event of a problem with the pump ketoacidosis can happen much more quickly, but even so I still think it's worth it.
If I was you I would raise it with the consultant, don't waste your time with the nurses (all due respect to them, but it's the consultant who makes the decision). It may take a while, just keep pushing. That's what we did. Don't be discouraged if at first they just reject the idea, keep raising it, as pumping is becoming more and more 'mainstream' for children - it's not inappropriate at all!!
As far as criteria go, NICE has guidelines, but I am not that clued up unfortunately. Both our girls got pumps on the grounds that their HbA1C's remained unacceptably high on basal/bolus. Lots of hypos is another reason, though that didn't apply in our case(s). As I said before, I think a lot depends on the attitude of the consultant - some are more 'pro pump' than others.
Hope this helps - good luck with it all.
Best wishes
Sue