Hi, I can totally relate.
I had two m/c's in 2011, the second was horrific as I was nearly 12 weeks and baby had actually gotten to the 11th week before passing away.
Then in 2012 I became pregnant again after giving my body a few months rest and to grieve.
16 weeks into pregnant I was diagnosed Type 1, but leading up to that I literally had weekly little bleeds, they were the most frightening things, every time I would think its happening again! i had so many scans, mainly to put my mind at rest, this time I needed to know what was happening after every bleed.
As I write this I am listening to a very lively 11 month old boy scream at Katy Perry on tv, we were blessed this time with a healthy full term pregnancy. The bleeds stopped, finally, at around 18 weeks. I remember my Consultant at the time saying some times these things happen as womb changes, only advice we were given because of the other two m/c's was to lay off the physical side of our relationship.
Anyway, my point is, bleeds can mean the worse, but as I can prove, not always.
I send many hugs and good luck to you for a successful pregnancy
Shelley xxx