Hi Blossom,
In my opinion, suggestions to eat a little less and exercise a little more are the standard currency in weight-loss discussions, but while they might help, they won't fix the problem by themselves.
The bottom line in my view is insulin levels. Insulin is the body's main fat building hormone and levels in the bloodstream have a direct effect on whether we store calories as fat, or whether we burn fat for calories. Most type 2 diabetics overproduce insulin, initially at least, due to their insulin resistance. Many, although not all, will struggle with their weight as a result. Type 1's on the other hand are more usually slim and again this is a result of a chronic lack of insulin.
When i figured this out, I started eating much in the way hanadr describes. One year later I had lost 4 stone and they never came back.
Do you use insulin or other blood sugar lowering meds?
All the best,
fergus