Lemonie, I think the reason no one has relied is because yours is a difficult post to answer.
I think you understand that eating to many carbs will affect your BGs adversely but that you feel unable to keep down to low carb intake.
I, for instance, would never eat a baked potato , with or without beans, if I do eat beans they are the low sugar sort and my potatoes are new, small and three at a time.
The fact that a low carb intake sorts out your BGs is a pointer to what you need to do, but if you are unable to keep to a low carb regime, (and it can be hard, we all know) then the only option is to find a suitable form of treatment that will keep your BGs stable.
To some extent the type of diabetes you have is not that important, what is important is that you find a treatment that will keep your BGs in a good place.
My suggestion is that you write every thing you eat down, including the weight and make a note of how it affects your BGs two hours on. Do it for a month and then go and see your doctor and ask what treatment they suggest.
H