I'm an awkward case! I've had a couple of diet controlled pregnancies and one insulin controlled. I've insisted on home-births and my local hospital has a policy written especially for me to do so! :mrgreen: All have been fine.
I do not have a cannula. I am not induced. I do not have extra monitoring. I have a natural 3rd stage. I do a blood test every couple of hours during labour and keep an eye on baby afterwards to make sure it feeds well - I can defrost some stored breastmilk and slowly syringe it into their mouth if they are sluggish. I decline any blood sugar tests for baby if it looks right - feeds well and is responsive. I am able to control my own blood sugar very tightly with diet now I've got the hang of low carbing (30g main meal, 15g snacks). I am an experienced mum (7 children), have done a LOT of research so I can argue my case, and have the confidence to make my own decisions!
Doctors and other staff are very quick to tell you what you have to do, but really they can only offer advice, and it is you who decide, at the end of the day. They can write "AGAINST ADVICE" all over your notes in big red letters, underlined 3 times if you chose not to do as they suggest and they want to cover themselves.