It's not unusual for men either, but is called balinitis...very unpleasant but manageable until (squeamish readers stop here) the f*r*sk*n becomes fibrous at the end and can't be pulled back any more for cleaning the balineum. Only cure is the unkindest cut of all, which is where I'm going next week...not having a religion change, but it will ensure that the condition can be cleared up once and for all. Its all about the fungus's lovev of sugar, which is why it thrives in undiagnosed diabetics. If you're a man, not yet diagnosed, and have this condition, get yersel away to the docs - you might be able to sort it out before you need the chop! :x