Hi,
Like dragongirl, I am reluctant to offer any advice due to the age of your child. This doesn't seem right that he should be eating such huge amounts of food at such a young age, and I would imagine that this may be effecting his diabetes control. I would try to speak with his diabetes specialist nurse as soon as possible, they may well offer some advice that may help to resolve this issue with your son. Do let us know how you get on and hope all goes well!
Nigel