Megan
Has your GP checked you over for tender points in your body. Diagnosis of fibro is mainly made nowadays from being in constant pain in at least 11 points out of 18 for at least 6 months, as well as being depressed and constantly tired. I have pain in 16 out of the 18 points that they use for diagnosis. Often, it is only rheumatologists that diagnosis this, and it may be worth asking the psychiatric nurse to be referred to a rheumatologist, but that really depends on whre and what your pain is.
I admit readily nowadays that I though all my pain was down to statins, but now admit that I have fibromyalgia and am actually glad of the diagnosis, as just that diagnosis alone makes me think that it is my body and not me imagining things!!!!
I have also suffered from chronic memory problems, and still do. Just last week I had to go searching for the milk........instead of putting it in fridge I had inadvertently put it in a cupboard and never found it for 4 hours....this I could understand for an elderly person, but I am only 47!! Years ago, I could not find my way to a customer, despite me having had her as a customer for 3 years and going there every week. I checked my blood and it was perfect. So this really was the start of me going to a dementia clinic, where originally they then diagnosed me with pernicious anaemia and palindromic rheumatism. These diagnoses last year were wiped off my records as being inaccurate and with a new diagnosis of fibromyalgia.
I psychiatric nurse does not necessarily mean bad.....I too was referred to a psychiatrist. A pscyhiatric nurse is more of a specialist than a general prectitioner, and will certainly have more time to discuss with you what is happening. Have a look at fibromyalgia websites, there is a lot of information on them (I can't look at their forums though, as when I did I found them toooooo depressing!!), but general info and diagnosis and symptoms are good.
I wouldn't particularly worry about seeing a pscyhiatric nurse. You certainly will not be their worse patient, but they will be more aware of medicines for fibro and depression etc than others.