yes, the GP is refusing to accept there is a problem and is quite close-minded on the whole thing - assuming HbA1c is the answer to everything.
Unfortunately, my relationship with my GP has really broken down over the last couple of months as I keep trying to prove myself as I just know in my body and myself that something isn't right and my body isn’t responding normally at the moment. They are getting increasingly frustrated and insistent that there is nothing they can do to help me, hence why I’ve had to resort to going private.
The problem now is that I just don’t have the money to keep funding this privately and am really getting to end of my tether about what to do anymore
But, in my experience the Consultant will write to your GP giving a brief overview of the consultation and any conclcusions he has reached, and any next steps to be taken.
In my personal experience an Endo I was consulting (relating to my wonky thyroid gland) wanted a raft of blood tests done, because of my family history mainly. He just pipped up that he'd ask my GP to order them up. As he is also an NHS consultant he can see the results directly and we'd take it from there.
Those tests revealed nothing - zero, but later GP tests did, and I now see the same Endo as an NHS patient.
Again, in my personal experience, I have striven very hard to maintain decent working relationships with my GP. The btoom line is they are our gateway to any secondary care we need, and if we want to be engaged in our own healthcare, then a cordial working relationship is necessary. I try very VERY hard not to try to tell my GP what's wrong with me in any way that could be described as self-diagnosis, but I will often tell them I've consulted Dr Google (cue rolling of eyes from the other side of the desk), and tell them my findings. That sometimes helps move forward, or it requires them to tell my why my reading or feelings are wrong.
To be clear, that doesn't always mean I agree with them, or that I always accept their decision as final. Sometimes I will adopt a negotiating stance, and end up compromising on my ideal outcome, and sometimes I have to give in - for now.
With out health, we are playing the long game.
Finally, I don't see anywhere where you disclose your ethnicity. The only reason I ask is that for certain racial groups, the A1c test is less robust that it could be, and for those groups the Fructosamine test can results more reflective of the position. Just a thought.