Ours not to reason why...
Yes, I agree with you - from my limited understanding of how things work, some of those requests seem odd.
Was the blood test he sent you for an HbA1c or a 'fasting' blood glucose? I can see that a hba1c might make an interesting comparison with 4 months time, but a fasting? Nope. Could it have been a test for anything else? Stress hormones, maybe?
The written figures diary is also a puzzle. I find graphs MUCH easier to 'read' for trends and overall tendencies. But you will still have your Accu Chek graphs, won't you? I would be tempted to use them to write out my 'figures diary' just before my next appt! I think I would also want to test more often for a while - trying to map out when, or what foods, are causing the increase in hba1c. Can you get hld of the extra strips that would require?
I agree with you that stress does very odd things to BG. My dawn phenomenon goes completely haywire with stress, and that is only on a day to day blip thing. What it must be doing to you with the kind of grinding daily worry you are under, I can only guess.
Best wishes to you, and your wife.