Hi Anna
Concerns for wearing a pump..
From my view as well, I could not and still cannot wear my pump anywhere around my waist, and not in bra either...I was fortunate that I was given a Combo pump with a full working remote control that allows full communication between pump and remote...so I wear mine on my arm. It never comes off unless I need to go in water (swimming or bath) or when I do a cartridge change every 6 days. There aren't any holders to keep pumps on arms, so I have my home made holder that works brilliantly for me. Yes, if I wear vest tshirts people can see it, but only had one comment on it. Apart form that under blouses and jumpers it isn't noticeable at all and I really do not know it is there. Yes, I have longer tubing than others but I have neveer caught it in anything because it is always under my clothes and I can easily remove trousers, knix for going to toilet without worrying wear the pump is. I wear it day and night in this place.
There are ways around everything.
Pumps are a different way to managing diabetes, but having had diabetes for 26 years, and a pump less than a year, I really wish this technology had been available when I was first diagnosed. I always carb counted and always had highs in the mornings etc etc...the pump sorted this out, but it does take getting used to. My DSN and rep said it takes 6-8 months to get used to the ins and outs of it...but personally I think it is worth it, just for the fact that I don't get the highs in the mornings when I used to get up, and no more night hypo's either....