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Hello I have no clue what I am doing.

Belinda909

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Type of diabetes
Prediabetes
Treatment type
Diet only
My name is Belinda, I am 50 years old 5'6" and weigh 122lbs. I have been diagnosed with high blood pressure and take meds for that. I am a borderline diabetic. I also have high cholesterol, the bad is high but the good is really good. No meds yet but want to change my diet but have no clue what to do or how to read a food label to know what I am doing. I have sat here and cried trying to figure out what to do. I read the things on the internet about high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and diabetes but it's like reading greek to me. I don't understand how much carbs is safe, what fruits are bad, how to cook the foods to still be healthy, whats a good fat whats a bad fat, I feel helpless right now!!!!!! My doctor said to read a book called the Dash Diet. I don't like chicken, turkey, fish, and I don't eat a lot of meat. Hamburges, hot dogs, and bologna seem to be the foods of choice for me. Love cheese, Mac n cheese, grilled cheese, Pep. pizza love it!!! Now everything I was eating is bad for me in so many ways I don't know what to do. I want to eat but eating scares the heck out of me! Is there help for a food dummy? Is there a simple way to look at this and understand?
 
Hi Belinda

I can't boggle you with the food science ....you have insight about what you want to achieve
So time to start making a plan ...
maybe you need to start setting goals for yourself ...

Also reading a book is one thing , but moral support is another , I think a bit of both is needed ....

Start perhaps by sharing what you eat ...or intend to eat ...

And perhaps you could consider a referral to a dietiten which your Dr can make ....
You might get a good one , worth a try ...

I am sure you will get lots of support and advice ...regarding your physical questions ....but we can only share our experiences ...

How borderline diabetic are you , just interested ....

Don't panic ....

Daisy will also share excellent advice with you to get you started ....
 
Hi Belinda909,

Look here http://www.dietdoctor.com/lchf, then come back and ask plenty of questions. Dont give up easily, you will probably need to learn plenty of new words in the beginning, but you will soon feel more comfortable. All beginnings are a bit difficult.
 
My name is Belinda, I am 50 years old 5'6" and weigh 122lbs. I have been diagnosed with high blood pressure and take meds for that. I am a borderline diabetic. I also have high cholesterol, the bad is high but the good is really good. No meds yet but want to change my diet but have no clue what to do or how to read a food label to know what I am doing. I have sat here and cried trying to figure out what to do. I read the things on the internet about high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and diabetes but it's like reading greek to me. I don't understand how much carbs is safe, what fruits are bad, how to cook the foods to still be healthy, whats a good fat whats a bad fat, I feel helpless right now!!!!!! My doctor said to read a book called the Dash Diet. I don't like chicken, turkey, fish, and I don't eat a lot of meat. Hamburges, hot dogs, and bologna seem to be the foods of choice for me. Love cheese, Mac n cheese, grilled cheese, Pep. pizza love it!!! Now everything I was eating is bad for me in so many ways I don't know what to do. I want to eat but eating scares the heck out of me! Is there help for a food dummy? Is there a simple way to look at this and understand?
Please don't be scared.

I am prediabetic too and this forum will give you all the advice you need. People on here have helped me enormously.
 
Hi Belinda and welcome.

You are lucky, you have been diagnosed borderline so have every chance of stopping this in its tracks before it becomes a problem. You also don't have any weight to lose, so that is also good. You are unlikely to be given meds as a pre-diabetic. So that is also good. Plenty of positives there. ;)

Food labels. Look for the nutrition details on which you will find "total carbohydrates". This is the important thing. The nutrients are always given as so much per 100g or 100ml, so if it says total carbs are 47g per 100g. this means 47% of that food is carbohydrate. That is far too much. You need to find things that are no more than 10% (less is better still). Have a look in your cupboards at the labels and see what you can learn from them before you start holding up the queues in the supermarket! (as we all have to do from time to time).

All carbs convert to glucose once inside the system, but some are worse than others. The main culprits are bread, potatoes, pasta, rice, flour and cereals. We also need to be careful with milk and fruit. The fewer carbs you eat, the better your blood glucose will be. It is that simple. Cutting down on carbs means you will lose calories, so as you have no weight to lose you will need to increase your fats and maybe protein to make these calories up.

Good fats are cheese, butter, full fat yogurts (unsweetened), double cream, olive oil, rapeseed oil, eggs, meat and fish (especially oily fish like salmon).

No need to panic. Take some deep breaths and do read these forums. This thread is easy to understand and you may find it useful http://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/threads/a-new-low-carb-guide-for-beginners.68695/

Please ask questions.

@daisy1 will be along soon with some information for newly diagnosed.
 
@Belinda909

Hello Belinda and welcome to the forum :)

You have done the right thing joining this forum. Here you are amongst friends who all want to help you. The more you learn about diabetes, the better you will understand and you will feel much more reassured than you feel now. Here is the information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask as many questions as you need to and someone will be able to help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 130,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
Total cholesterol is 275, HDL is 75, Triglycerides 189, Clucose is 100, LDL cholesterol 163 Total hdl ratio 3.7, HB AlC 4.7....I don't know what all the numbers mean my doctor just said I was borderline pre diabetic. He said to watch what i'm eating and when i asked what to watch and how to change my diet he said do what I told you about your high blood pressure and read the diet book Dash Diet. I think I need a new doctor!!!! his answers suck he is of no help. I'm paying him and he want me to get all my answers from a book! I did buy the book but I don't think I need to loose weight?
 
Hi belinda and welcome to the forum,it is very worrying and can make you feel " what the hell" but take a deep breath, you are not alone and from your diagnosis with a few changes to your diet will be able to put all your readings in a good place,please keep posting , the posters on here are only too willing to help, what book did you purchase?
 
Hi Belinda and welcome to the forum.
You will get lots of good advice here also support,stick with us.
 
Total cholesterol is 275, HDL is 75, Triglycerides 189, Clucose is 100, LDL cholesterol 163 Total hdl ratio 3.7, HB AlC 4.7....I don't know what all the numbers mean my doctor just said I was borderline pre diabetic. He said to watch what i'm eating and when i asked what to watch and how to change my diet he said do what I told you about your high blood pressure and read the diet book Dash Diet. I think I need a new doctor!!!! his answers suck he is of no help. I'm paying him and he want me to get all my answers from a book! I did buy the book but I don't think I need to loose weight?
Here's your new doctor: the Diet Doctor!

Follow his advice and you will reverse/prevent all the metabolic syndrome symptoms:

http://www.dietdoctor.com/lchf
 
Hi belinda and welcome to the forum,it is very worrying and can make you feel " what the hell" but take a deep breath, you are not alone and from your diagnosis with a few changes to your diet will be able to put all your readings in a good place,please keep posting , the posters on here are only too willing to help, what book did you purchase?
I bought the "Dash Diet" I don't have the time nor the money to make the food recipes in the book. I am a practical person! I live with my son and we eat quick easy foods. I guess that's part of the problem tho. I have never been a big meat eater and I don't eat fish chicken or turkey.
 
Well, I guess you can either continue eat carb filled junk food or figure out a way to eat healthy food on your budget and time constraints.

Personally, I was a good baker, but not a good cook. So, rather than using complicated recipes I eat mostly fresh salads, beef, poultry, fish, cheese, yogurt, and coffee. It really simplifies grocery shopping. If you only want to eat beef, I don't see why that's a problem. In fact, it simplifies things quite a bit.
 
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I bought the "Dash Diet" I don't have the time nor the money to make the food recipes in the book. I am a practical person! I live with my son and we eat quick easy foods. I guess that's part of the problem tho. I have never been a big meat eater and I don't eat fish chicken or turkey.
Hi , plenty of veggie recepies on this forum ....
Some kind person my post a link , sorry I don't know how to ...
Quick and simple to make, worth a go ..

Don't think we haven't read books , most of us have and continue to do do ....you are making changes and have made a great start , stay in control ,
Best wishes ....kat
 
Hello Belinda. Your head must be spinning right now. But you're in the right place. There are many people on the forum who lead busy lives yet control their diabetes instead of letting it control them. You can do the same. They will teach you, gradually. All the confusion you express so well in your first post will disappear. Promise!
 
Well, I guess you can either continue eat carb filled junk food or figure out a way to eat healthy food on your budget and time constraints.

Personally, I was a good baker, but not a good cook. So, rather than using complicated recipes I eat mostly fresh salads, beef, poultry, fish, cheese, yogurt, and coffee. It really simplifies grocery shopping. If you only want to eat beef, I don't see why that's a problem. In fact, it simplifies things quite a bit.
I have not been out for fast food in a few months. I found out about the high blood pressure about 5 months ago. I have to watch my sodium as well. I can only have 1500 mg. of sodium per day. The doc also said not to eat meat because its high in fat and my cholesterol is a big concern as well. So now I'm watching sodium saturated fat and blood sugar. Thats a lot for the past 5 months! Just seems like I have been hit with everything all at one time.
 
That all sounds familiar too and some of us find that often all the bad stuff is connected -- stress, illness, allergies, they can all be assessed and dealt with, and when you start making one or two things better, other difficulties take care of themselves. You don't have to do it all by yourself any more.
 
I have not been out for fast food in a few months. I found out about the high blood pressure about 5 months ago. I have to watch my sodium as well. I can only have 1500 mg. of sodium per day. The doc also said not to eat meat because its high in fat and my cholesterol is a big concern as well. So now I'm watching sodium saturated fat and blood sugar. Thats a lot for the past 5 months! Just seems like I have been hit with everything all at one time.
Ah...sorry about that. I just went by one of your earlier posts that talked about hamburgers and pizza.

Well, all my metabolic disease symptoms (high blood sugar, high cholesterol, high triglycerides, high blood pressure, too big a waist, etc.) decreased to the point where I am now "normal". I achieved this by ignoring the official low fat low calorie diet advice. I'd tried that for years and all it got me was temporary weight loss and then really fat and diabetic. It took about a year, but it worked.

As for no meat because it has too much fat, to me that is patently absurd! I actually have a difficult time finding really fatty cuts of meat, which I need on my diet. I don't think you need to avoid meat. Seriously, if you are avoiding carbs to keep your blood sugar down and protein and fat for your cholesterol, what the heck are you supposed to eat!!??

I can see why you are confused!

 
All I can say is my cholesterol has improved significantly, as have my blood sugars and blood pressure. I eat low carbs, lots of dairy, cheese, butter, yogurts, eggs, double cream, mayonnaise, red meat, chicken, fish, oily fish. I'm not big on vegetables so I eat what I can plus loads of mushrooms and tomatoes. It's carbs that cause the vast majority of problems.
 
Hi Belinda

A lot of good advice already. Don't worry about fat. We are designed to eat fat. It's part of our natural existence. After all when we get fat we store saturated animal fat. It's our natural energy storage. We can only eat carbs, fat and protein. So, if we only need a certain amount of protein, eg 15 to 20 % of total calories, the only other two variables are fat and carbs. If you limit your carbs you need to increase your fat.

Our diet as humans has become increasingly more dependant on carbs for all sorts of social, political and economic reasons(all counterintuitive to our needs) meaning that the 'normal' human diet, or at least what appears to be normal, is so far removed from what we need. We, and medical/dieticians have all been duped by the 'low fat' movement derived from terrible science from the 1950's, but on examining the evidence there is no real evidence that saturated fats have ANY effect on major markers for disease.

Your numbers are not terrible by any means and you can relax a little. Your hbA1c is a mearure of your long term glucose levels and at 4.7 is very good. If you cut your carbs a bit and increase your fat you will have it sorted in no time.

Good fats - olive oil, coconut oil, butter, ghee, lard, saturated animal fat, unsweetened double cream, Greek yoghurt, cheese, eggs, oily fish. Fats in - avocados, nuts and seeds.

Bad fats - anything that needs high levels of processing like vegetable oils eg canola (watch the you tube vid on canola/rapeseed oil extraction, most vegetable oils, seed oils ( I know it sounds contradictory but they are inflammatory).

Carbs, however, are a different matter. We are told to eats lots of carbs for energy. This is false. A reasonably low carb diet will actually give you more energy, less mood swings and will stop cravings. Those who have tried it will vouch for this. A high carb diet (that propose by the 'experts' is highly inflammatory for many reasons, too much to engage in now, and is one of the major causes for our deteriorating health as a species is the Westernised world - read obesity ( not relevant or you), diabetes, stroke, cancer, Alzhiemers, heart disease, etc.

(PS if you lower your carbs significantly, you may need to up your salt, if you feel a little unwell eg headaches, tiredness etc. could blind you with science but not particularly helpful if you are just needing the basics)

Eating fewer carbs and more good fats will

1. increase your HDL cholesterol ( a great marker for increased cardiovascular health. HDL, High Density Lipoprotein, is a transport system in your blood for moving cholesterol around. The higher the better).

2. reduce your triglycerides - also very good.

3. Stabilise your blood glucose to normal levels very quickly.

4. increase your insulin sensitivity, good. (Type II diabetes is effectively a reduction in insulin sensitivity resulting in poor blood glucose control and high blood glucose)

5. Reduce your overall back ground inflammation. High levels of background inflammation has been linked to many degenerative diseases, so this will reduce your long term risk for these diseases.

Advice on carbs. Significantly reduce or remove high glycemic carbs such as bread potato pasta and rice. Eat lots of low glycemic foods such as green vegetables, salads, colourful veggies etc. you can get tables of glycemic indexes for foods on the web. Don't worry too much that different tables give different readings, they are just a guide and it is an I exact science.

Avoid processed foods, Cook mainly from fresh ingredients so you have control over what you eat. Organic if you can. Local produce if you can. Wanna get really serious grass fed beef, butter etc but hard to source and expensive.

Honestly, this is good advice for all humans including diabetics, non diabetics, borderline diabetics.

Take home message. Relax. Enjoy your food. Rely on this forum. Ask if you need help.

If you really want to understand more then read, read, read. But advice to date from the forum is sound.

Good starting point for me was 'The Science and Art if Low Carbohydrate Living by Phinney and Volek. Grain Brain by David Perlmutter. ' from there you can go anywhere.

Good luck.
 
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