Hi, I'm failing miserably in managing my type 2 diabetes which I've had for 2 years now, my main issue is anger, not violence I'd like to add just terrible mood swings which effect my relationship with my wife and 2 to young children who are aged 1 and 3, i really need to take hold of this problem and I'm reaching out for any advice on eating and most of all how to keep on the right path without being tempted and telling myself it won't hurt this time, I'm thoroughly fed up with failing and just don't know where to turn, I gave up smoking 4 years ago and just can't seem to find the same will power I had then, help anyone??
Hi @Robhj73
Welcome to the forums. You're in the right place for advice mate.
You need to be aware that all carbohydrates turn into glucose in the body. So think about the bad boys, rice, pasta, bread and potatoes. Don't cut them out straight away but think carefully about reducing portion sizes.
Do you have a test meter? If not, think about getting one to monitor your glucose levels.
For about 3 years before being diagnosed I was always losing my rag with the missus, looking back I don't know how she put up with it. But do realise that it's likely to have something to do with high glucose levels, especially if you were a thoroughly nice chap before.
As for the temptation thing. I'd suggest that you give in to it! What I mean by that is, make sure you give yourself a reward for your hard work. You don't have to go mad, just a bit of chocolate or whatever your vice is. You have something to look forward to and it helps to keep you sane.
Keep asking questions and good luck. I will ask @daisy1 to give you some extra info.
Cheers mate thanks for taking the time to respond, much appreciated
Hi,Hi and welcome Rob. Loads of friendly advice, no question too small, and definitely no judgements, so you're at the right place. Don't worry about "failure", you've made the effort to join a forum and try and get some help so all will be well. What kind of problems are you having? As mentioned, a meter is vital in keeping track of your blood glucose levels, and it really helps to figure out what you can eat safely, and what might affect you - we do have a tendency to disagree with the standard NHS dietary advice here, primarily because it doesn't work for a lot of us. And actually makes things worse..
Is it meals or snacks or both that you're struggling with?
Hi,
Many thanks for your help and advice, if I'm honest I'm not coping at all with knowing what I can and can't eat, my gp refused to give me a meter saying it wasn't necessary, so I guess I'm better off buying my own, again I wouldn't know what kind, my lifestyle doesn't help, I do shift work which consists of nights and days and also have 2 toddlers aged 1 and 3 so sleepless nights is something that is not going to go away for a while, my eating times are irregular so I need to nail a routine with the right foods to feel as good as I can, all in all it adds up to mood swings, tiredness and feeling down, I want to turn things around for my wife and girls as much as for myself but need a starting point with the right information, joining the forum was a cry for help as I feel even my doctor doesn't understand the life changes only the symptoms, I look forward to reading any advice you you may be able to offer and thank you in advance
Rob.
Hi, thank you very much for your advice, I've been overwhelmed with the amount of responses I have had I definitely made the right choice joining this site. I have now ordered my meter from amazon and look forward to getting some control.Hi Rob. I've been diagnosed T2 for about 4 yrs now, but have now finally decided that I have to take control of the diabetes and not it of me. I've been on the LCHF diet for just over a week and it has helped me greatly. I don't want to kill my husband anymore! My mood swings have decreased, I do get the odd urge to throttle him, but not on an hourly basisI have just got the SD Codefree meter and am waiting until my old testing strips run out on my old machine to use it. This machine is a fraction of the price for lancets and the machine purchase won't need a bank loan either! I got mine from Amazon
Codefree Blood Glucose Monitor/Monitoring Test/Testing Kit+Strips+Lancets+Case - in mmol/L
from SD Biosensor
cost me £12.99 plus I got 100 testing strips for £13.99
100 Strips - SD Codefree Blood Glucose Monitor/Monitoring Test/Testing Kit Replacement Strips
from SD Biosensor
The strips for my old machine are £13.99 for 50 from Amazon and £27.08 locally!
Remember to take time for yourself and also maybe you and your wife could have 'time out' from the kids too! Ask your wife to look at this forum and she can understand more about this condition.
Thank you so much for your advice, I've struggled with being a moody sod as it's not me and my wife is delighted I joined this site as it proves it can be managed!Another one here who has been told I am much easier to live with since I have been eating low carb and have my blood sugars under some form of control, I also feel so much better and happier (even with the diagnosis!).
Torq makes a really good point about stress relievers, we all need to do somethng that acts as go to "me time" in times of stress. I have taken up swimming and walking and find that that time to my self (just half an hour will do it) makes a real difference.
Really recommend the dietdoctor website. They do a two week low carb challenge which is a fantastic introduction and effectively tells you what to do.
Good luck and keep asking questions, this lot are a great help and very knowledgeable.
Hi, thank you very much for your advice, I've been overwhelmed with the amount of responses I have had I definitely made the right choice joining this site. I have now ordered my meter from amazon and look forward to getting some control.
Thanks again
Rob
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