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Hi, I'm New and still in shock!

dragonfly66

Member
Messages
7
Location
west sussex
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Treatment type
Diet only
Hi, I was diagnosed asT2 last month. It came as a complete shock and although this site has been a God send I think i have been searching for evidence to give me hope that this is all a dreadful mistake and that i am not really diabetic. My HbA1c was 6.1 but my OGTT was fasting 7.0 and 120mins 7.8 which the diabetic nurse said confirms i am T2. However, it wasn't until i had the retinopathy test that it really hit home as i had a 'bump' just one but still a shock. I also have a numbness down one big toe - had it for ages but didn't really take much notice! Thank you to this site for the support you give. I purchased a meter and have straight away started low carbing but my morning reading is always high (i think) at 6.8 or thereabouts. During the day it can go up to 8.8 or down to 5.6, so i obviously still need to cut down. The diabetic nurse has not really given me much advise only that if i want a donut then thats ok but to just have half of one instead of a whole one!!! That was the extent of her advice but she ahs refered me to go on a Desmond day, not until October. So this is my lifeline now - thank you everyone, i don't feel so alone now.
 
I was just diagnosed 2 weeks ago, have my first DB nurse appointment this morning, i've found this forum so helpful as I havent been given any information at all from Doctor or anyone else just yet, same day I found out i was diabetic i spent hours trolling the internet and came across this forum, so signed up and here i am, changed my diet already, stopped smoking also and feel a whole lot better that i'm actually getting help from people with the same condition. I too felt alone but now feel that I can get the help needed from members here...

Daisy will probably post a great wealth of information for you on this post too


Welcome to the forum

Sharon xx
 
Dragonfly, welcome. For most of us it is a huge shock at first, but it gets easier over time. We're here to support each other along the way.

My advice is to try to be gentle with yourself, this is a big change in your life, take some time to get used to it. It can often take a few months for things to settle down. No one expects you to have it all sorted in a few weeks.

I too have one retinopathy dot, which scared the heck out of me, but now I just feel "I have a dot". I am getting tested again in 6 months time - did they bring your test forward too? I think the tests are 2 yearly unless they see something they want to check more often.

I know it's easy for me to say, but you're doing really well, doing your best, so take it easy... and I'm glad you found this forum - it's a great source of information.
 
dragonfly66 wrote
The diabetic nurse has not really given me much advise only that if i want a donut then thats ok but to just have half of one instead of a whole one!!!

You couldn't make it up, could you ?
If it's a jam doughnut do you eat the half without the jam :roll:

Talk about give the profession a bad name !
This really takes the biscuit (and then hopefully throws it away in favour of a boiled egg :lol: )

Geoff
RMEID (rolling my eyes in disbelief)
 
Hi Dragonfly and welcome to the forum
It looks like you need some good advice ! Here is the information we give to new members and I think this will be useful to you. Ask all the questions you like as there is always someone here to help.

 
Hi, Thank you for your replies. I think it was the discovery of the 'bump' at retinopathy screening that has scared me the most although she did say that with careful BG control it might heal in time and that they would write and see me again in six months to a year. Has anybody had a bump that has healed and how long did it take? Thanks
 
Welcome dragonfly66 . Your levels look pretty good already but low carbing will make them all the better. Good luck and ask any questions you need to.
 
I suggest getting your eyes tested again in 6 months. You can contact them and make the appointment - don't wait for them to write to you in "6 to 12 months". Always manage your own health care, follow up on test results yourself and get results in writing.

This dot might go away or it might not, and that's ok. The level of early mild retinopathy you have would never, ever cause a problem unless it gets worse. And it would have to get a lot worse before it's anything you need to worry about.

Managing your blood glucose well will reap benefits for your entire body, not just your eyes.
 
Hi Dragonfly. Welcome to the forum. My first piece of advice is don't worry. You are amongst good people here and I'm sure you will find - like I did - that you'll learn a lot here.

I was diagnosed two years ago, but learned more here in a month than I ever did before, and that includes the DESMOND course. You will soon learn about eating in a way that is just as good and inspiring, but you'll be eating different and more healthy foods.

Just don't be afraid to ask questions - any questions you like - and we'll bring our experience to bear.

Remember you're not alone and we're always willing to help.

Dave x
 
Thank you so much for your reassurances, you don't know how much I needed that. I have really been worrying about my eyes and am feeling a bit brighter now
There is another thing i am not clear on though, when you test your BG 2 hours after eating does it make any difference if you have had say a couple of cups of tea in between finnishing your meal and testing or do you need to wait a bit longer? I have looked through different posts but can't see any reference to not eating or drinking in between. I'm probably missing it but would appreciate if anyone can clarify. Thanks
 
Hi dragonfly, (love the name you have chosen ) a cup of tea or coffee could effect your result depending whether you have sugar
or milk in the cuppa as both have carbs in them. The caffeine in both options can also effect your results. I either have my drink directly after my meal or wait until I have done my +2 test.

I find that the decaf versions of both drinks with just a tiny splash of milk makes very little difference to my readings if any.

When in doubt testing is always the best option as we are all different.
 
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