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sarahv

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Hi everyone. I'm new to this site, i'm not diabetic myself but my partner is. I've come on here to hopefully gain some answers/support. My partner was only diagnosed with type 2 diabetes (although he injects insulin instead of taking the tablets) last august (2010) he seemed to be controlling it at first but now his sugars are up all of the time and he feels the same as before he was diagnosed. He's very stubborn and keeps saying he's giving up with it all becuase the insulin is not working, i've tried to talk to him about it but he never wants to discuss it. Its hard for me to understand what he must be going through so i'm looking to find ways that i can help him through people who have been in the position we are in at the moment. Thankyou for any help or advice its much appreciated.
Sarah
 
Hello Guys, I am aaliya, and all new to be here on this site, Hope that this will be a long time stay.
 
Hi Sarah and welcome to the forum To help you to help your partner, here is some basic information written by the Forum Monitors for new members. When you have read this ask as many questions as you like.

 
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If he is taking insulin by injection, he must be able to change the qty of inulin that he is injecting inaccordance to how is body is using it, and of course what food he is eating.

Few questions:

Does your partner know about carbohydrates and foods affecting the BG levels?

Does your partner alter the amount of insulin he gives himself?

What was his last hba1c blood test results?

Does he ever go hypo?

When you say his levels are raised-what as an average are they running at on a daily basis at the moment? How often is he testing?

It is great that you are taking such an interest in trying to help him with his diabetes. Diabetics need good support to keep them on track sometimes. Not somebody, that is going to say 'you can't eat that', but someone that understands and can help with making correct food choices to keep at home, for packed lunches etc. You have certainly come to the right place, if you browse some of the postings by other members will see that you certainly aren't the first person to be concerned about how their partner is handling their health with diabetes. You are doing exactly the right thing by asking for advice. Welcome to the forum...great place....

TBH I suspect that he isn't matching his food intake to the injections and his daily activities.
 
Hi Sarah

Welcome, my partner is also diabetic (Type 1) and I also joined to find helpful tips and advice that I could pass onto him. It's the best thing ever as we have got hbc1 down from 9.1 to 6.6 since November and that's just from information found on this forum!

Hope you find it as useful as we have.

Sarah x
 
Gosh that is fantastic Sarah....well done for both your partner and for you for the support!!!!
Good support is fantastic in the world of diabetes. Great support from the forum, but otherwise it can be a pretty lonely world we live in without the help from family and friends.....they can make all the difference.
 
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