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Abbey

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Hi, I have joined as my daughter's boyfriend is a type 1 diabetic and I'd like to understand more about this disease.

I look forward to learning more and speaking to you all.
 
Hi,

Welcome to the forum..

It's very sweet you'd like to learn more about diabetes as i see from another post it seems the relationship your daughter has with him is a serious one.

Have a look around as there is lots to read and learn, ask any questions you like and someone is always happy to take time to answer
 
Hi Abbey and welcome to the forum Here is some information to help you to understand your daughter's boyfriend's diabetes care. It was written for new members by our friends Sue and Ken, former monitors. As Ebony said, there is always someone who will answer any questions you have.

 
Hi, abbey. Welcome to us all here, any questions or help just pop back n ask us, we're here to help n support. Anna.x
 
Thank you for the warm welcome and the information. I feel it's very important for my husband and I to understand as much as we can about Diabetes as my daughter's boyfriend is very much a part of the family. I know that his mother has spoken to my daughter who knows how to help him should he appear unwell. It does worry me that when he is here that he eats a lot of sugary junk food that they have gone out and bought. My understanding of this is that it could cause long term complications? He clearly isn't allowed/doesn't get certain foods at home...which I'm guessing is why he will eat them when down here. Are there certain meals I should avoid him having when he stays at the weekend? He likes quite 'stodgy' things and politely declines offers of salad with chicken and cold meats.

All advice is great.

I look forward to speaking to you all and thank you x
 

Hi,

It's not exactly the food that causes complications, rather the high Blood glucose levels that result in eating sugary/highcarb foods without taking insulin to cover the amount of carbohydrates eaten.

I certainly understand your worry though. I personaly tend to eat 'naughtier' foods away from the watchful eye of family, especially my mum. But that doesn't mean i can't control my diabetes when i do eat sugary or high carb foods. aslong as your daughters boyfriend is checking his blood glucose and taking his insulin then it should be fine.

I think the only way you will know if he is being responsible is to ask him, of course this is best done politely and tactfully. Afterall he is an adult and responsible for his own diabetes. If he has had diabetes since childhood he has probably had his own parents and family constantly looking at what he eats and weighing food, so as he's gotten older he probably enjoys the freedom of choosing his own food and treating himself too (as we all love to do )

You could always talk to his parents too, but i would think that should be a last resort as you don't want to make him feel uncomfortable coming over to your place either.

It's quite tricky but hopefully he will understand your concern and explain to you that he is able to eat those sort of foods as he can use insulin to keep his blood glucose levels regulated.

Hope this helps a little
 
Find a way of asking him to teach you about diabetes. If you tell him you'd like to learn, it gives him 'adult' status instead of the 'child' status he will always have at home - even when he's 50!

Viv 8)
 
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