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<blockquote data-quote="TorqPenderloin" data-source="post: 1116977" data-attributes="member: 211504"><p>This is from a man’s perspective. I hope you take this constructively, and I wonder if it’s possible and that your husband and I think the same way.</p><p></p><p>You say that you’re not an unreasonable person and that you don’t mind him seeing friends on the weekend, yet the way I interpreted your post it sounds like you’re getting mad for him seeing his friends on the weekend. That’s confusing to me and I can see how that would be confusing to your husband especially if you haven’t talked to him about this.</p><p></p><p>It doesn’t sound like he’s ignoring your feelings and you mentioned that he does do things around the house.</p><p> </p><p>Admittedly, sometimes we men do need things spelled out, but we're NEVER mind readers. I think I speak for most men in saying that.</p><p></p><p>I'm very fortunate that my fiancé and I are able to communicate very well without playing the guessing game. If something bothers her, she tells me how she feels. At that point, if I choose to do it again without discussing it with her I am the one who is wrong. If I feel she is being unreasonable, we will discuss the situation (and I will usually lose anyways, lol).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TorqPenderloin, post: 1116977, member: 211504"] This is from a man’s perspective. I hope you take this constructively, and I wonder if it’s possible and that your husband and I think the same way. You say that you’re not an unreasonable person and that you don’t mind him seeing friends on the weekend, yet the way I interpreted your post it sounds like you’re getting mad for him seeing his friends on the weekend. That’s confusing to me and I can see how that would be confusing to your husband especially if you haven’t talked to him about this. It doesn’t sound like he’s ignoring your feelings and you mentioned that he does do things around the house. Admittedly, sometimes we men do need things spelled out, but we're NEVER mind readers. I think I speak for most men in saying that. I'm very fortunate that my fiancé and I are able to communicate very well without playing the guessing game. If something bothers her, she tells me how she feels. At that point, if I choose to do it again without discussing it with her I am the one who is wrong. If I feel she is being unreasonable, we will discuss the situation (and I will usually lose anyways, lol). [/QUOTE]
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