I'd suggest either trying to see a different doctor, or buying your own strips to augment what he prescribes.
Hard to tell what effect the met will have as this will depend how much insulin resistance you have etc.
Theoretically yes, you will need to reduce your insulin, and probably more as your metformin is increased, but as to how much, without testing you will have no clue. Be sure to carry some glucose tabs or orange juice to guard against unexpected hypos. If you should have one, try to crash into his car, that might change his mind <G>