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Just diagnosed today

Defren

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Hi,

I am a 46 year old single mom to two teenage girls. Today my life has been tipped upside down, and I won't deny I am scared stiff. I feel I have a million questions, and no one to answer them. I know this forum will help, but I can't help feeling some of the questions I have might be 'silly'. I know someone else here is likely to have had the same questions, but to be honest, I just want to curl up in a ball and cry. How do you get through the early days, knowing so little about a condition that could have horrific consequences if not managed properly, and how do I learn how to manage it? I have been prescribed Metformin and Simvastatin, but I know pills alone is not the answer. My head hurts!
 
I have replied to your other thread before seeing this one. Please don't despair. I can assure you that no question is silly. Everyone here is really friendly and helpful. At the beginning I looked on it as a challenge and was really positive about it. You will go through alot of emotions but we are all here to go through them with you.
 
My biggest advice is don't worry, many people are undiagnosed for years so you have an advantage on them, any small change now is beneficial. And small changes can be maintained so add up to big results
 
hi defren welcome to the site .im also relatively new to the site having been diagnosed some six weeks ago and can tell you i too was in shock,upset and felt i could not let my family know how i felt even though i have 2 daughters who are nurses.i felt so alone ,guilty and so isolated until i came across this site.you can ask what questions you want and people will answer them please dont despair and as gappy as said just make small changes until you are seen again im doing that at present as i dont see diabetic team while 14th march and i can happily say i have lost over a stone in weight since been diagnosed i am so pleased about the small changes i have made
 
Hi Defren and welcome to the forum It is definitely a shock when you are diagnosed and we have all been through that but in time, once you get to know the things you have to do to look after yourself, you will feel much better as I do. Here is some information that we give to new members which should help you. Ask as many questions as you need to as there is always someone here to help.

 
Thank you, truly, truly thank you. Where would I be without this forum. In a big mess I suspect. Thank you for the info Daisy, I think I will print it off for easy access. You're all so wonderful to a complete stranger, who just feels like her world has caved in.
 
Hi Defren
You will find that on a print-out of this information you will not get the information contained in the links. So it's better to read it on line from time to time.
 
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