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Just diagnosed today

Defren

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Hi,

I am a 46 year old single mom to two teenage girls. Today my life has been tipped upside down, and I won't deny I am scared stiff. I feel I have a million questions, and no one to answer them. I know this forum will help, but I can't help feeling some of the questions I have might be 'silly'. I know someone else here is likely to have had the same questions, but to be honest, I just want to curl up in a ball and cry. How do you get through the early days, knowing so little about a condition that could have horrific consequences if not managed properly, and how do I learn how to manage it? I have been prescribed Metformin and Simvastatin, but I know pills alone is not the answer. My head hurts!
 
I have replied to your other thread before seeing this one. Please don't despair. I can assure you that no question is silly. Everyone here is really friendly and helpful. At the beginning I looked on it as a challenge and was really positive about it. You will go through alot of emotions but we are all here to go through them with you.
 
My biggest advice is don't worry, many people are undiagnosed for years so you have an advantage on them, any small change now is beneficial. And small changes can be maintained so add up to big results
 
hi defren welcome to the site .im also relatively new to the site having been diagnosed some six weeks ago and can tell you i too was in shock,upset and felt i could not let my family know how i felt even though i have 2 daughters who are nurses.i felt so alone ,guilty and so isolated until i came across this site.you can ask what questions you want and people will answer them please dont despair and as gappy as said just make small changes until you are seen again im doing that at present as i dont see diabetic team while 14th march and i can happily say i have lost over a stone in weight since been diagnosed i am so pleased about the small changes i have made
 
Hi Defren and welcome to the forum :) It is definitely a shock when you are diagnosed and we have all been through that but in time, once you get to know the things you have to do to look after yourself, you will feel much better as I do. Here is some information that we give to new members which should help you. Ask as many questions as you need to as there is always someone here to help.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find well over 30,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates
Reduce your carbohydrates
A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes ... rains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips
The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
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Please sign our e-petition for free testing for all type 2's; here's the link:
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/petition/

Do get your friends and colleagues to sign as well.
 
Thank you, truly, truly thank you. Where would I be without this forum. In a big mess I suspect. Thank you for the info Daisy, I think I will print it off for easy access. You're all so wonderful to a complete stranger, who just feels like her world has caved in.
 
Hi Defren :)
You will find that on a print-out of this information you will not get the information contained in the links. So it's better to read it on line from time to time.
 
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