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looking for advise please

i told my wife to let me go if i am down with troublesome illness when i am in 70s. no point sucking the blood of your children with medical bills.
 
i told my wife to let me go if i am down with troublesome illness when i am in 70s. no point sucking the blood of your children with medical bills.

You've a lot to learn.. It's actually the other way around.
 
hope so. medical fees are high
Ah, you're 'elsewhere'
Over here most things are free until you need nursing homes. They are expensive. They take everything you've put by, plus your house down to just £20,000. That is, if the last of us (my wife or I) need a nursing home for more than months, the kids get zilch split between them.

In any case 70 is still a spring chicken. You work until you're 66, 7 or 8 (it's going up) - who wants to be dead two years later? That was for our father's generation...
 
What was the liver issue caused by fatty liver?
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Sorry runner (#18) my computer wouldn't boot this lunchtime, so I'm all over.

The meeting with the liver specialist on 28th is to prepare for a biopsy - after that we may know the cause. They can't put it down to booze (not unless a dry sherry on Christmas day counts ) so I'm expecting they will put it down to fatty liver. It is possible they may attribute it to medications prescribed over the past 2 decades - perhaps not..

With the appointment letter they sent me an invitation to join the tissue bank. Wondering when I can make a withdrawal.....

J.
 
freaking scary, i am diagnose 17 months ago. on metformin for 6 months, hba1c on jan 2014 is 4.7.....but this thread make me rethink that it will burst suddenly.

Not scary 'mine'.. You just gotta fight..

I'd never had a day's illness in my adult life until August 1989 when I got a terrible pain from my right hip right down to the sole of my foot. A year later some of the country's best spinal people told me I'd be 80% reliant on a wheelchair for the rest of my natural.

The wheelchair and I parted company just 18 moths later - permanently. Darned device was the most uncomfortable and cold place I've ever been...


J.
 

have not given up. just hope i wont be a burden to the younger generation.
 
all the complication of diabetes are need care taker and financial assistance. if you dont have to pay for it, someone else would have to.

i have a friend who told me that parental love are unconditional and free. we as parent we provided all these unconditionally, but we to take care and educate the young takes a lot of effort, time and money.
 

How true these words are, even today...

There comes a point when payback might just have to kick in. If you allow (even your own) children take with no give, then you are bringing up some really selfish kids. Mind you, looking around, perhaps that is precisely what we have done.

Anyway, who says diabetes is a life sentence - I might be over the hill but there are plenty of people around who have beat it.
Odd expression, 'over the hill' - why didn't I notice when I reached the top?


J.
 
Hi j
My goodness that sounds horrendous and I have a cheek to winge.
I really hope things are better now x
 
Hi
im so sorry mind I really didn't mean to scare you. X
spoke to dn and she has put me on a new drug to the market. Got to be worth a try x
 


i used to take this approach. society has changed. now people has less children. when it comes to children i think it has to be forward paying. they has to provide for the next generation. thats the fundamental thing to keep us going. people who did not have off spring is not paying back their parents.
 
Hi
im so sorry mind I really didn't mean to scare you. X
spoke to dn and she has put me on a new drug to the market. Got to be worth a try x

Hi there lisa00769,
Are your bloods getting back to a more 'normal' range now?
The suggestion that you may be going down the track of type 1 seemed possible after hearing your symptoms and how you were struggling. Great diet advice from runner2009.
Hope you're feeling more in control.
 
Hi bebo
was worried about this new pill as not been on the market long.
I've been takung it for 2 days and my sugars are reading an average of 9-10 so its doing something yay!!!
I know not great but its a start.
also been sticking to runners advice re diet so that has probably helped also.
thankyou for asking xxx
 
Hi j
My goodness that sounds horrendous and I have a cheek to winge.
I really hope things are better now x

Hi Lisa,
Many thanks.. I missed your post because I'm all of a tizz with this flaming computer. It's an intelegent machine alright, it knows just when to cause maximum impact.

Just on the phone to number one son - he says I need a £7 lumpammer...

Sorry, that was a 7 lb lump hammer



J.
 
Ha ha jay.
I like your humour. Xx
 
Thanks Lisa.

Is July 69 your birth date? Number one's is May 69.

He has lived in Calgary since '92. The line is usually better than we get to our daughter, just 5 miles away. Today it was a bit foggy. Or perhaps it is his Canadian accent - mixed with the accent he picked up from Shoeburyness during his gap year (some sort of Cockney) it is a real doozy.

J.
 
Hiya.
I have no idea why those numbers are after my name. Completely random.
Im actually 40, lol. X
 
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