Hi Susie
Yes, it does get easier...eventually.
Pumps are great. Indeed by diabetic nurse at my GP surgery raves about our hospital and the amount of children especially that are being able to have pumps, and how much better control seems to be with them.
There are a quite a number of parents here with children using pumps, and they seem to prefer them to the regimes that they had with MDI. A shame that your child has been put off by seeing one-was there something specific that your child didn't like??
Your DSN will be able to advise you more, but using a mixtard insulin does not give you so much control over blood readings unless you can do extra fast acting only injections to bring down the high's, and without sending your child in to hypoland.
If you haven't been on a DAFNE course, they are meant to give good information that would so much help parents regarding foods and altering insulins to account for foods.
Me personally...I actually now prefer the thought of a child having a pump rather than MDI, as MDI still has a background insulin running, that when it is injected it is in you. Whereas on pumps, you can tweak the background insulin to activitys a lot easier, and if necessary they can be stopped or reduced immediately-or raised immediately. I personally wish I had the pump years ago, but I am an adult, and can rationalise these things.
Your DSN should be able to help you to. Do consider whether it is certain days that the levels rise pre lunchtime, and what activitys she is doing on those mornings....the more info your DSN has, the more she can work with you to achieve better results on those days. It could be for example, on those days in nursery that she is less active, it could be that on those days she has had had readings in the mornings that are slightly higher, so it could be the night-time ones the night before that need to be adjusted.
Life isn't easy initially with diagnosis of D whether as an adult, child or parent. Advice from some HCP's are at odds with places such as this forum. At the end of the day, I can see how much parents are concerned with their childs diabetes, and this will go on for life...my Mum still worries about me and I am 47!!!! It can get easier, but it is going to take time, there isn't an instant fix and all of us are so individual that it makes it harder for HCP's-what works for some-won't work for others...you will get there, honest...