JohnEGreen
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I am sorry to hear that, it's very sad.Yes, I know there is no compulsion - but that doesn't give them immunity from contracting it and passing it along.
Just so people understand where I'm coming from - so far I have had five friends die of this thing. That's five families that have lost a much loved parent/ sibling / spouse / child.
How do you feel about being in the same enclosed space, for instance a shop, with people who are not wearing masks because they’re exempt?
It seems to me that we have a clash of two needs: protection of those who may be very adversely affected if they catch COVID-19, and support for those who have certain conditions that make them exempt.
I'm probably repeating what others have said. I started wearing a mask in March. I have a friend in Singapore who has seen more epidemics and pandemics "than I've had hot dinners" to quote a well known phrase or saying. She said 'wear a mask', then I started to do the research and there's a lot, most saying 'wear a mask to decrease the risk'.It seems to me that we have a clash of two needs: protection of those who may be very adversely affected if they catch COVID-19, and support for those who have certain conditions that make them exempt.
I am sorry to hear that, it's very sad.
It does however illustrate why there is a big variation in how serious the likelihood of infection is regarded. For example, in my own case I haven't heard of anyone, not even friends of friends, or anyone locally who has even had the virus, let alone died.
I am sorry to hear that, it's very sad.
It does however illustrate why there is a big variation in how serious the likelihood of infection is regarded. For example, in my own case I haven't heard of anyone, not even friends of friends, or anyone locally who has even had the virus, let alone died.
I think it would be useful for a risk/benefit analysis of mask wearing in the community setting in this very hot weather would be very valid.I have a friend who has a compromised larynx and says she gets attacks of breathlessness when she wears a mask in a shop, but apparently she’s ok if she’s outside a shop. I feel sorry for her as it seems to be a mental health issue, but I don’t feel sorry enough to be sympathetic to her ‘need’ not to wear a mask if she shops knowing that people who are vulnerable and/or have been shielding could also be shopping. I suppose this is partly what prompted me to ask you all how you felt about it. I’ve been feeling slightly unkind, since she’s a friend, and wondering if I’m being nasty when I emphasise that her actions could so adversely affect others. I know she has contact with quite a few people. The area she lives in has a relatively high rate of Covid.
I think that's exactly the problem isn't it, people don't know anyone who has had it, so don't feel the need to worry about it.It does however illustrate why there is a big variation in how serious the likelihood of infection is regarded. For example, in my own case I haven't heard of anyone, not even friends of friends, or anyone locally who has even had the virus, let alone died.
I don't think I should have to wear a mask but would not dream of embarrassing a shop assistant or security guard if I was challenged about it. And I respect your right to wear a mask too. I am avoiding places where there is any enforcement.The irony is that those that are exempt from masks are just those who maybe adversely affected by Covid. I have asthma as well as type 2. I have invested in an FFP3 mask which has a degree of protection for me as well as protecting others from me. I saw a quote on Facebook which was designed to make people think whether they really can’t wear a mask, it went something like this “if you find breathing with a mask on difficult, you should try a ventilator!”
I fear some people are just making up excuses not to wear one just because it’s hot and sweaty. Like a lady I saw being stopped at a supermarket entrance who didn’t have a mask on. She reluctantly put it on then proceeded to rant at length at the security guard, that she couldn’t breathe with a mask on. She certainly was breathing during her rant!
This was an interesting take on people not wearing masks because it imposes on their freedom. Obviously it’s different if there is a genuine exemption but many people are falsely using the exemptions because they are wishy washy and easy to abuse when really their reasons are not exempt.
Some of the willingness to wear a mask comes from how we are treated when we don't wear a mask.(I have variable breathing problems, so sometimes I can wear one, sometimes I can't). There are two Tesco's local to me, one, when you go in you are asked 'excuse me, do you have a mask?'. In this one I stop, consider my breathing, and put my mask on if I can. In the other I get 'Stop you. You're not coming in without a mask.' I say I'm exempt, she says where's your proof, I say I'm not required to show proof... and so on. Is it understandable that I won't put a mask on for this shop?
It is understandable you are fed up with their lack of common decency in how they ask (and no you don’t need proof so they shouldn’t ask for it) but no I don’t agree. If you are able to wear the mask you are able to wear it. If you can’t you can’t. That’s not dependent on the rudeness or friendliness of the staff. It’s not just them you are wearing it for, it’s also for every other customer in the shop and the non rude staff.Some of the willingness to wear a mask comes from how we are treated when we don't wear a mask.(I have variable breathing problems, so sometimes I can wear one, sometimes I can't). There are two Tesco's local to me, one, when you go in you are asked 'excuse me, do you have a mask?'. In this one I stop, consider my breathing, and put my mask on if I can. In the other I get 'Stop you. You're not coming in without a mask.' I say I'm exempt, she says where's your proof, I say I'm not required to show proof... and so on. Is it understandable that I won't put a mask on for this shop?
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