To be honest it's all very overpowering at the moment.
Try not to worry too much, there's a lot to take on board, there's some info available written by a forum member which I expect will be posted when they read your message. At least you have come to a good place. We are mostly in the same boat, most having similar experiences although not all. You get the benefit of everyone's experiences.
When I called the surgery to explain they said I didn't need to see my gp and gave me one for the next day to see the diabetic nurse.
Sadly the whole issue is very hit and miss, one gets the impression that the response you get depends very much on where you live and even then, what sort of GP's practice you go to. You did better than me 20 years ago, diagnosis was the result of an insurance medical, after years of telling my GP I was always thirsty. Even with the diagnosis my GP would not prescribe any medication, just a "eat sensibly", a joke really as I didn't eat cake, chocolate, sweets in fact anything with sugar in . . . . . except the odd beer and had been following the low fat idea since my wife said I had to in 1989. My referral to an endocrinologist took 5 months.
My second appointment with her was when she gave me the metformin.
Should really have been her first prescription but never mind, you have metformin now. Gliclazide as I mentioned earlier helps the pancreas make more insulin. There is a tendency for people to gain weight without eating more, I gained 10 kgs, no problem, didn't eat more or exercise less, it will affect different people in different way though.
I tried to show her the readings I had taken for the two weeks but she wasn't interested.
That's just bl00dy rude, even if she wasn't interested she could have at least had a look. Probably a good idea to keep all your results because at some time in the future you may get to see somebody who will want to know. I think her treatment has been rather blasé.
What most people on this forum do is adjust their eating habits by cutting out carbs to one degree or another. I cut out bread/pasta/rice/potato (except for treats) and threw away 2 diabetic medications and a statin. No brainer, I've continued for the best part of 4 years with excellent results.
Keep a stout heart, don't let the b@$t@rd$ grind you down.