It is possible to be a type 1 with insulin resistance (which is not the same as moving from type 1 to type 2, because that is not a thing) and there are plenty of type 1s on metformin to help with insulin resistance.
Having a long honeymoon (I.e. A long time post diagnosis when you're still producing your own insulin) does not determine that you are not type 1. If your hba1c is high I'm not sure a move to reduce insulin is the best plan and you might want to discuss this with your doctor a bit more, if I were you, I would be sure to discuss:
- your presentation on diagnosis (which is textbook type 1)
- your family history & your mums type 1 diabetes
- ask if you have had a GAD test and if not, ask for antibody testing
- ask for genetic testing if the GAD test is negative
- ask what the normal (non diabetic) reference range is for a urine c peptide test is - how far outside of this are you
- ask what the plan is for reducing your high hba1c without insulin, if the plan is to wean you off insulin
If you're concerned about the plan going forward maybe get in touch with your doctor to explain that you aren't sure of his reasons for weaning you off insulin, what your diabetic status is or what the plan is for managing your high hba1c now. If you have an email address, at least it would all be in writing to discuss at your next appointment.