Clairehannah
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- 13
- Type of diabetes
- Type 1
He can't stand the thought of a pump and I asked if he wanted to go to speak to someone but he feels as though he needs to get his own brain straight to do this himself. I spoke to him again tonight but he didnt think it would help him as he knows what the problem is. Thanks for your quick reply.Has he seen a psychologist or someone similar? I had a needle phobia which I partly overcame myself, but a psychologist was mentioned before that.
And would a pump help?
He can't stand the thought of a pump and I asked if he wanted to go to speak to someone but he feels as though he needs to get his own brain straight to do this himself. I spoke to him again tonight but he didnt think it would help him as he knows what the problem is. Thanks for your quick reply.
Thanks for your reply. We have looked into the pumps. He is getting his insulin but he is now dependant on close friends and family doing it even though he is really pushing himself to do it. It means that it is really effecting his independence now as he is timing everything around when someone is there to help him with injections.
He can't stand the thought of a pump and I asked if he wanted to go to speak to someone but he feels as though he needs to get his own brain straight to do this himself. I spoke to him again tonight but he didnt think it would help him as he knows what the problem is. Thanks for your quick reply.
Thats very helpful. Thank you for your reply.It's good that he wants to sort it himself. I hope he's able to. I developed a kind of switching off strategy where my mind wasn't thinking about what I was doung but was focussed on the future a few minutes ahead. I'm sure I didn't explain that very well, but I'm basically saying he needs to think about mental strategies he can use to deal with it.
I also think that sometimes problems become worse if you avoid them. That's in NO way a criticism, but just saying that if he's able to get started on dealing with it sooner rather than later, it could be easier.
It's not easy and it'll take work, but if he's mentally ready then he can start dealing with it. Depending on his fears, the first few steps may be absolutely tiny, but any progress is good. He's lucky he's got you to support him. Tell him it is do-able, and that he's not the only one who has problems. Also tell him that the people who've got their phobia under control aren't any stronger than him, and so he can do it too.
Best wishes to him and to you.
I will mention it to him again. Thank you for your reply.Well at least he is getting his insulin, but still its not ideal and he needs to talk with his diabetes team and mention the possibility of moving to a insulin pump.
Really hope it all works out well for you all. Best wishes.
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