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amanda81

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hello im newly diagnosed and feel totally alone, confused and bloody petrified!! i was diagnosed after going to the doctor with thrush, she did a urine and finger prick test both of which showed high levels of sugar, a fasting blood test confirmed this. Im on 1500 of metformin a day and have all the rubbish side affects ( stomach pains, diahorria..sorry cant spell it ) I still have thrush and am suffering from tiredness i have noo energy, is this normal??? Ive cut out all the bad things from my diet and am eating a lot more healthily (although the only veg i like is potatoes and peas and I honeslty cant remember when I last had a piece of fruit!) im not hugely overweight just a bit chubby and have since lost more weight but I am finding it extremely hard to accept it all and the fact that my life is never going to be the same!
 
Re: new and cunfused

im reading lots of peoples questions and answers on here and its making me even more confused!!!! how do i measure my blood sugar levels do I need to ask for something off my doctor? and whats a normal reading??
 
Re: new and cunfused

Hello Amanda

I'm sure Daisy will be along soon and post you the official "welcome pack."

Yep I'm only a bit chubby too but still have diabetes, being not hugely overweight doesn't change anything I'm afraid.

You've done the right thing coming here. I was only diagnosed a couple of months ago and now I feel so much better as I've got to understand about what's wrong and how I needed to change what I ate.

The good news is you can control your blood sugar levels and get them right back to nearly those of a non diabetic person, that wont cure you but it will put you back in control of your life and it will minimise the chances of bad things happening to your body because you are diabetic.

The bad news is that to do so means you have to accept a life style change and that's quite hard both to do and to accept.

Thrush, no energy yes that's normal and are strong indicators of high blood sugars. If you bring them down you will begin to feel better.

Like you I'm on Metformin. Some people like yourself have a reaction to it. Most people who do solve it by getting what's called the slow release (SR) version. Don't treat Metformin as a magic bullet. It does reduce your blood sugars (BG's) SLIGHTLY and helps with the "spikes" in BG after you eat. Some people like myself find that we get the bad reactions if we are eating the wrong things and its the Metformin's way of telling you "Don't eat that."

When you say "you have cut out all the bad things from your diet" what do you mean by bad?

To control your blood sugars you should be reducing your carbohydrates especially sugars which just are one form of carbohydrate and you also need to reduce "starchy" carbohydrates like rice, pasta, bread, pastry & potatoes. You should try and cut out all sugars (anything sweet) to start with at the moment and at least halve all the other foods I've listed. Instead eat meat, eggs, cheese and yes I'm afraid vegetables.

If you post back what your average diet is I'm sure lots of people will advise you on want is good and bad.

Good luck and keep asking questions.
 
Hi amanda81,
Welcome to the club that wouldn't be anybody's first choice to join. I'm sure someone will be along soon and post up lots of useful bits of information for you. It is a real shock to the system when you are first diagnosed, but keep reading bits and bobs on this site and you'll find lots of helpful stuff to help you get the hang of it.

I'm not sure if this the same for every surgery, but when I was initially diagnosed, the practice nurse who specialises in diabetes gave me a testing meter and some strips. My surgery also gave me strips on repeat prescription but I know a lot don't. I've since been diagnosed with type 1 (and am on insulin) so I now get them. Chemists also sell them and I've seen them at the pharmacy counter in Sainsbury's. There is a thread on this site which gives information on equipment. I use the Bayer contour testing device which comes with a lancet to prick your finger and a tub of testing strips. I bought a replacement online direct from Bayer when the first one broke. There is a thread on this page 'Basic information for newly diagnosed', so you may find that helpful


There's lots to take in and I'd suggest you take it bit by bit. It sounds like you're making a good start by trying to eat healthily and it's crucial to work out you blood sugar levels to get them to an acceptable level.

Although I'm aware that different people's diabetes is different, I was tired for quite some time. It may be a good idea to get an appointment with the GP or diabetic nurse at the surgery to talk through how you're feeling, especially about the side effects of metformin, tiredness, thrush etc.

Take Care and good luck

Libbyloo
 
Hi Amanda and welcome to the forum I see you have had a lot of good advice already. To supplement this, here is the information we give to new members and I hope it will be helpful. Ask as many questions as you like, as you see there are plenty of people here to help.

 
Hi Amanda and welcome! It's not as terrible as you think - lots of worse things out there! You'll soon get used to all the confusing stuff on diet, and I won't repeat the good advice above, but diet is absolutely KEY. So go easy on those carbs!
 
I was diagnosed a year ago and honestly right now I have happiness to spare if anyone needs it. I've got healthier and through this gained confidence and am currently really enjoying myself. Ok, i'm not doing everything I did before but you know what? I don't miss anything coz it's no big deal I can enjoy myself without pizza and chocolate. My cholesterol is down from 6.1 to 4.9 my hbawatsit is 5.6. I'm 3 and half stone lighter you can be healthy without a regime dominating your life so don't panic!
 
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