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ChrissyR

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hi,

Im Chris (female). I posted in the questions forum over the last couple of days because my mum is 84 years old and diabetic and my dad died last week. It is his funeral tomorrow (23rd) and i was panicking on how best to help mum should anything happen during the service.

The response i got was brilliant and i felt so welcome even though i am posting on behalf of my mum and not for myself. I will definitely continue to visit the forums as i have found it such a friendly place. Of course unfortunately i will not be able to offer advice myself as i dont have diabetes so dont know a lot about it.

Im sure that i will have further questions over the coming weeks and months and i feel confident knowing that this place is here and there are people who will be able to put me on the right track.

Now ive read this post back it does sound sort of selfish as i am not in a position to offer practical advice to others so i hope that you all dont mind me joining.

Thanks everyone.

Chris
 
Welcome to our elite club. Who knows, you may become a fully paid-up diabetic member one day! Bet you can't wait!
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Hi Chris and welcome to the forum :)
My condolences to you for your dad.
If there is anything you would like to know that will help your mum just ask and someone will be able to help. Since you say you know very little about diabetes, perhaps you would be interested to read the basic information which we give to new members. It would help your mum if you knew more about it. Don't worry if you can't offer advice - we all love giving it :)


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find well over 30,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes ... rains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips
The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
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Please sign our e-petition for free testing for all type 2's; here's the link:
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/petition/

Do get your friends and colleagues to sign as well.
 
Welcome Chris, condolences about your Dad.
 
Welcome Chris

hope we can of some service to you, your mum's lucky to have you looking out for her

Mary x
 
ChrissyR said:
hi,

Im Chris (female). I posted in the questions forum over the last couple of days because my mum is 84 years old and diabetic and my dad died last week. It is his funeral tomorrow (23rd) and i was panicking on how best to help mum should anything happen during the service.

The response i got was brilliant and i felt so welcome even though i am posting on behalf of my mum and not for myself. I will definitely continue to visit the forums as i have found it such a friendly place. Of course unfortunately i will not be able to offer advice myself as i dont have diabetes so dont know a lot about it.

Im sure that i will have further questions over the coming weeks and months and i feel confident knowing that this place is here and there are people who will be able to put me on the right track.

Now ive read this post back it does sound sort of selfish as i am not in a position to offer practical advice to others so i hope that you all dont mind me joining.

Thanks everyone.

Chris

Welcome chrissy ( and not forgetting mum) :wave: I sincerely hope you never belong to the D club, I wouldn't wish that on anyone :( You may have already said, but what,( apologises if you have already said) type is your mum :?: Best wishes RRB
 
Welcome Chrissy, sorry to hear of your sad news and send love to your mum...

This place is great, friendly bunch too

Take care and hope all goes as well as can be

*hugs*

sharon
 
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