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Feeling stressed about diabetes
:lol: Well, I'm Muddled Maxine, diagnosed with type 2 diabetes last August, and put onto insulin in December.

Finding it all alot to take in, and struggling to get my head round some of the advice given.

My Dad has diabetes really badly, and I am frightened I will end up like him

I hope by joining this forum, I can become UNMuddled Maxine!! :lol:

Maxine
 
Hi Maxine and welcome to the forum I can remember being very confused when I was first diagnosed so I know what you're going through. Thanks to this forum I gradually learned about diabetes and how best to look after myself. The better you look after yourself, the more you can reduce your risk of complications. Here is some information to get you started on this route - it was written by our friends Sue and Ken, former monitors, for new members and I think you will find the advice in it very helpful. Ask as many questions as you like as there is always someone who will be pleased to help you.

 
Hi Daisy

What a lovely welcome, thank you. I shall have to read it all again, but on first reading, it sounds all logical and not too complicated, I haven't done too badly thus far, but it's just so much to take in.

I struggle with exercise too, an occasional bout on the exercise bike. I just can't seem to motivate myself after working all day (often long hours) then home to do housework and cooking :? How do other members motivate themselves (if, like me, they've not been overly active in the past) :?:

Thanks

Maxine
 
Hello! I motivate myself to go to the gym basically through 2 reasons. I was injured physically in a motorbike accident and am the sort of awkward person who isn't going to let that hold me back! Basically coz I was active before the accident my fitness saw me through some tough times in hospital. When I was diagnosed diabetic I became inspired again, like many I wasn't given a test meter so I can't check how my blood levels are going but I was advised lose weight. So I thought I'd make sure I did that and if levels are bad at next test I have made an effort in 1 area I can check so I'll tell doc give me testing kit and I'll show I can improve like I have done with my weight! But now I've lost over a stone already I enjoy peoples comments-that's the best motivation!
 
Hi Muddled Maxine

Don't forget housework still burns calories....no doubt some more advice and better than my comment will come along...but think the best thing from my point of view that keeps me motivated nowadays is being positive that housework does count!!!!!

Little things count too, such as if you travel to work by car-park the car a little further away to walk abit more, or always walk up the stairs at work. If there are wheelie chairs (as I call them) rather than whizzing across the room on a chair-get up and walk it... Or turning the tv over-don't use the remote..get up and change it over... That's the little things that motivate me more..I may not be going to the gym, but I do everything within my own surroundings that I am able to do to give myself that little bit more exercise...that motivates me into thinking at least I am doing some exercise....

As for my motivation with my diabetes..nowadays it is because I have seen the darker side of diabetes, not through complications fortunately. Mine was also because I was told 'I WILL' get complications....and I have always wanted to prove people wrong!!!!So far I have....and there are loads of people that are successfully managing and that too is the motivation to me.

You will manage it too...just that after diagnosis, it is a lot to take onboard...
 
Hello and welcome Maxine

When we realise that we actually own our diabetes and it is mostly down to us where this new path will take us then motivation is not really such an issue. You need to decide for yourself how much you are going to let your condition dictate to you or whether you are going to take charge of this new part of your life.
The above advice which has been passed on to you has been gained through practical experience and is priceless if you use it well! It won’t be long before you sort the muddles out into order! 8)
As has already been said, if you have any questions then do ask as there will be someone very happy to help.
 

I have never been overly active, and after breaking my neck in 1988 I became even less so..... :roll:

I also have lots of other things to deal with as well at the moment, and some of those things seem to be on a higher motivational list than losing weight, although I know it is an important thing.

Well done on losing a stone, I shall have to think of your motivation when I'm struggling
 

In that case then, I'm maybe not doing quite as badly as I think, because I do the housework, and part of my job means running up and down stairs several times a day, and I never, ever use a lift! :mrgreen:


That's quite amazing, I do all of these little things, you have made me feel so much better, thank you!


My Dad has had lots of problems relating to diabetes, and it scares the hell out of me, and it IS a motivation, but perhaps I should be taking one step at a time - I'm trying to do it all sometimes, and maybe I shouldn't.... the only thing I'm really struggling with is exercise, but from your comments, I'm not doing quite so badly after all!

Thank you, honestly
 

Thank you I will take control of it, it's just somewhat overwhelming at the moment
 
HI Muddled Maxine

You will get fantastic help and support from here.

I believe to make sustainable changes in life, then they are best to be achievable and enjoyable.
Although your dad has diabetes and has had a rough time-it doesn't mean to say that you will be the same.... 1st off medicine and care has changed dramatically in the past 25 years since my diagnosis...my dad paid £100 for a blood test machine that I used to carry around in a shoe box!!! Help from HCP's is good, and mine are so much more approachable now than when I was first diagnosed. Insulin and the regimes we do have changed as well.

With foods you can still enjoy, but you may have to have lesser sized portions and less frequency of some foods, but with your dad's diabetes, I am sure you already know that.

The best thing to do is to carb count to get better levels which will give you a better chance of having avoiding compications.

You sound as if you are really wanting to take charge of your diabetes, and you will manage it...think most of us have some ups and downs along the way, but support here is always guaranteed...
 
Hi donnellysdog

Thank you so much for such a positive response.

I shall definitely keep popping on here and seek, and when appropriate, offer support too
 
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