No hope, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink

[sally mercer]

John won't reply because apparently he's fine, he doesn't have time for this etc. His aggression towards the family has nothing to do with him. It's my fault, I caused it and without me he would be fine. What I do know is the John before diabetes is not the same person I live with now. I don't know whether I'm coming or going. I think I need to just give up fighting and roll over and except my lot. I won't be posting anymore, I just need to accept what I've been dealt with

 

[zand]

It will get easier...honestly. At the moment he is still in shock from the diagnosis. It's natural to be angry and look for something or someone to blame. I'm sorry you're going through this.
Hang on in there. We are here for you too

 

[Jaylee]

John won't reply because apparently he's fine, he doesn't have time for this etc. His aggression towards the family has nothing to do with him. It's my fault, I caused it and without me he would be fine. What I do know is the John before diabetes is not the same person I live with now. I don't know whether I'm coming or going. I think I need to just give up fighting and roll over and except my lot. I won't be posting anymore, I just need to accept what I've been dealt with

Hi,

Welcome to:the forum.

What form does the “aggression” take. Is it during low bloods?
How long has your spouse been diagnosed?
No form of abusive behaviour is acceptable.

The police can be called if it’s physical violence.

 

[Jaylee]

Hi,

Welcome to:the forum.

What form does the “aggression” take. Is it during low bloods?
How long has your spouse been diagnosed?
No form of abusive behaviour is acceptable.

The police can be called if it’s physical violence.

OK,

I am going to add for your spouse’s safety. Ask for an ambulance too if he is low.
Then inform all concerned on T1 & possible BG when they attend.