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<blockquote data-quote="Lamont D" data-source="post: 2553722" data-attributes="member: 85785"><p>A bit of an update.</p><p>I am in the middle of physiotherapy for my spondylitis, it is helping, but I'm awaiting a referral to the vascular department. If I move my head to either the side or upwards for more than a few seconds, I get dizzy. It could be the joints and small discs through arthritis and wear and tear are causing a disruptive effect on my blood vessels or the nerves causing these symptoms. But through the certain exercise s with a resistance band, Is helping with the pain, discomfort. I am also discovering to do things without too much head and neck movement.</p><p>My (grr) wonderful old Patterdale is on a mission to get rid of me. His enthusiasm pulled me into the wall and my back is scratched, bruised and sore. It has got me out of seasonal gardening duties. I must say that my recent efforts in this area are really good, it is looking quite nice. Bulbs are in, feed is done on my patch of greenery, lawn. (Patch of grass!) Bushes trimmed and shaped, just like me!</p><p>I am still concerned (not worried)about my long term health, it is something that took me the doctors to find the spondylitis, already concerned (not worried) about my general health, in control, good energy levels, good bloods but aches, pains, muscle weakness, my docs aren't sure.</p><p>My mental health is not bad, a lot more positive, facing my demons, done some good things for me, my interest in my club is back but I can't get excited about it. I want to, but along with the absence of elation even when we win is a concern. No feelings of joy, in fact the distinct lack of feelings, of most feelings is a concern (some worry) I care, I feel empathy, sympathy and understanding, but it's like I'm still on the anti depressants, numbing my feelings suppressing the more enjoyable feelings such as elation, happiness, joy. I hear people say, the joy of my children and grandchildren. I want to be with them, play, talk, teach and enjoy their lives, but no joy!</p><p>I have talked to my counsel team, my doctors, the boss and it's something that they haven't got an answer.</p><p>I still cry and feel awful on less and less bad days. I am not me yet, but the work continues, </p><p>I'm reading a lot more and nearly enjoying them but the book series have to be read again before a new one is published. My memory for this has been hit hard, similar to before diagnosis. </p><p>I have left my biggest concern is for the boss. She has gone downhill once again and is in need of my presence more and more. She is getting so mixed up lately, I have to repeat myself more and more. I have now took over all the household duties, I am a full time carer for myself, as well as the wife. The review on her meds is ridiculous as some are for side effects, I have pleaded with our new docs that something else has to be done. </p><p>Getting more concerned about her.</p><p>This has taken.e a few hours to post. I want to do more outside the house but I'm terrified of leaving her. She now needs constant care.</p><p>I'm not a carer, never been a househusband, I am your typical alpha male in the scheme of things. Learning new skills in the kitchen, bathroom and in the care industry, i should left it in the bedroom, but I've forgotten all about that sort of thing. </p><p>I have tried to get more help but I'm treading water with it. I will look into it, says everyone I talk to. We need a new wet room a bath is useless for both of us. The man from the council is making excuses about funding</p><p>As is everyone dlse, concerned about finances, paying bills, everything is going up except income. Having to be more selective with some joints of meat. Pork isn't too bad, nor gammon, beef and bacon have gone up and chicken has taken flight. And with Christmas coming..........! "We've been in a worse situation" the boss says.</p><p> but have we?</p><p></p><p>It is one thing after another, relentless!</p><p></p><p>Stay safe</p><p></p><p></p><p>I had to write this after the post the other day that gave me that urge to put it out there!</p><p></p><p>Best wishes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lamont D, post: 2553722, member: 85785"] A bit of an update. I am in the middle of physiotherapy for my spondylitis, it is helping, but I'm awaiting a referral to the vascular department. If I move my head to either the side or upwards for more than a few seconds, I get dizzy. It could be the joints and small discs through arthritis and wear and tear are causing a disruptive effect on my blood vessels or the nerves causing these symptoms. But through the certain exercise s with a resistance band, Is helping with the pain, discomfort. I am also discovering to do things without too much head and neck movement. My (grr) wonderful old Patterdale is on a mission to get rid of me. His enthusiasm pulled me into the wall and my back is scratched, bruised and sore. It has got me out of seasonal gardening duties. I must say that my recent efforts in this area are really good, it is looking quite nice. Bulbs are in, feed is done on my patch of greenery, lawn. (Patch of grass!) Bushes trimmed and shaped, just like me! I am still concerned (not worried)about my long term health, it is something that took me the doctors to find the spondylitis, already concerned (not worried) about my general health, in control, good energy levels, good bloods but aches, pains, muscle weakness, my docs aren't sure. My mental health is not bad, a lot more positive, facing my demons, done some good things for me, my interest in my club is back but I can't get excited about it. I want to, but along with the absence of elation even when we win is a concern. No feelings of joy, in fact the distinct lack of feelings, of most feelings is a concern (some worry) I care, I feel empathy, sympathy and understanding, but it's like I'm still on the anti depressants, numbing my feelings suppressing the more enjoyable feelings such as elation, happiness, joy. I hear people say, the joy of my children and grandchildren. I want to be with them, play, talk, teach and enjoy their lives, but no joy! I have talked to my counsel team, my doctors, the boss and it's something that they haven't got an answer. I still cry and feel awful on less and less bad days. I am not me yet, but the work continues, I'm reading a lot more and nearly enjoying them but the book series have to be read again before a new one is published. My memory for this has been hit hard, similar to before diagnosis. I have left my biggest concern is for the boss. She has gone downhill once again and is in need of my presence more and more. She is getting so mixed up lately, I have to repeat myself more and more. I have now took over all the household duties, I am a full time carer for myself, as well as the wife. The review on her meds is ridiculous as some are for side effects, I have pleaded with our new docs that something else has to be done. Getting more concerned about her. This has taken.e a few hours to post. I want to do more outside the house but I'm terrified of leaving her. She now needs constant care. I'm not a carer, never been a househusband, I am your typical alpha male in the scheme of things. Learning new skills in the kitchen, bathroom and in the care industry, i should left it in the bedroom, but I've forgotten all about that sort of thing. I have tried to get more help but I'm treading water with it. I will look into it, says everyone I talk to. We need a new wet room a bath is useless for both of us. The man from the council is making excuses about funding As is everyone dlse, concerned about finances, paying bills, everything is going up except income. Having to be more selective with some joints of meat. Pork isn't too bad, nor gammon, beef and bacon have gone up and chicken has taken flight. And with Christmas coming..........! "We've been in a worse situation" the boss says. but have we? It is one thing after another, relentless! Stay safe I had to write this after the post the other day that gave me that urge to put it out there! Best wishes. [/QUOTE]
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