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Not long diagnosed

Sc06eeee

Newbie
Messages
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Type of diabetes
Type 1
Treatment type
Insulin
Hi,I got told I had type 1 just over 2 months ago now! I'm struggling so much to come to terms with it! I'm in denial and just don't know what to do! I have so much support but I just can't get my head around it?! Is it normal to feel this way 2 months down the line to still hate talking about it or seeing things about it? Am I the only one who feels this way about it?


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Its normal... Honest... It will become less of a struggle over time...

Is there something specific that you struggle with?

Ie mine was feeling so different to everybody else (in my day of diagnosis we had to equate our food in terms of "exchanges"- not counting carbs specifically)...

Are people agitating you because they think they are helping but in fact you know what you have to do but just feel different and hate people fussing whether you are or aren't doing things?

People around you will be wanting to help you but sometimes you will feel overwhelmed.. Thats natural. Its a huge change but you will be ok...
 
I'm tagging @daisy1 for you as she can share some information if you are new to the forum - welcome.

Don't feel bad about being low, I probably think everyone has those days. I've found this forum a huge help for coming to terms with it, I was diagnosed in January of this year. I've modified my diet, exercise more and generally ok - but I still have low moments. Is there anything specifically that gets you down - I'm sure someone else,here has been through it and can help you.

I won't say cheer up, it's not that easy - but please try to look for positives, however bleak it is at times it doesn't need to be.

Very best of luck, hope to see you in the forums, we are here to help
 
@Sc06eeee

Hello and welcome to the forum To help you to understand better what you need to do to look after yourself, here is the information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask as many questions as you need to and someone is always here to help.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 150,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

http://www.diabetes.co.uk/low carb program


Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
@Sc06eeee
I think you and I are Birds of a Feather, being 'labelled' at a similar time, and how we both still feel. This has undoubtedly been the worst almost 3 months of my life - well to date. Please feel free to look at my initial post.
I am still terrified for the future, however I have been very well supported by my PN, and my wife has been brilliant and has literally had to hold me together. I feel 'it' has taken over my life and now controls me. The only things I have any control over are what I eat and when I exercise - so I have hit both hard - which has delivered results and given me a degree of positivity. I am enjoying the 'Phys' but still soooooo resentful that there is an awful lot of food I can no longer really eat, and miss soooo much.
The only positive thing in my life is I'm now fitter, slimmer and more active than I have been in years - it's just a real pity actually I have never been as 'Ill' in reality - ironic isn't it!
I'm also still absolutely bewildered how almost every piece of advice is contradictory dependant upon who you speak with, and equally what you read 'online'.
I guess the only thing is which we must get our heads around at some point is we are stuck with this - even if I feel (currently) I will never accept it as part of me.
Good luck my friend.
 
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