Hmmmm good question....I am afraid for once in my life I am stuck for an answer, at what point are we turning into old timers?
But please just let me say to you that I hope that you will never be afraid of posting near me or avoiding me, and you should not be afraid of posting/engaging with others either, this is not what this forum is about, nobody should be scared of being shot down by anyone.
From your signature I can see that you are probably very ill, 'kidney/pancreas transplant', so I hope all goes well for you.
All the best
Karen x