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I have just come across this thread whilst researching Palingswick House so am adding a few somewhat late thoughts that may trigger more memories for some.

My name is Julian Niemeyer and my father was Warden at PH from 1965 to 1970 before moving to a school in Suffolk. My parents did keep in touch with various staff and pupils - so I will share what I know.

My father is 83 and living in France. My mother died 7 years ago. Tony Cordani lived with his mother in Wales and died in his 80s about 12 years ago. Marion Gibb (a matron) went back to Scotland. Peggy Martin, who worked in PH office, left after my parents and then worked with them in Suffolk before retiring to Cornwall where she died this September. Her husband Reggie who worked as part-time handyman / projectionist is still alive - 101 or 102 now.

Other names I remember are Eileen Harris (a cook) who used to give me old pennies she got in her bus fare change; Sister Connors (or course!), Dr Stuart Carne. I remember a TV film crew recording an episode of something with Dr Carne at PH - with different pupils having to pretending to have different conditions - and everyone watching when it was screened to see who made it through to stardom (I didn't - apparently I was too preoccupied with my sister watching me undress).

Of the pupils, the person closes to me in age who I played with was Paul Oaten - I seem to recall once taking him to Paddington for a train to Cornwall - or at least the south west. Joey and Barnaby (?) were my sister's age. Everyone else I recall was older.

I remember Anton Vroom taking me to the ABC Cinema in King Street several weekends - and as I recall he used to go to "The Shed" at Chelsea - but I was never allowed.

Either Paul Gillingham (paulg in above posts?) or Kevin Gregory I remember at the BDA Camp at Blythburgh digging the latrine pits for the elsan chemical toilets - and one of them I recall was in a canoe on the River Blyth and capsized it with June Attle (who looked after me) in it. She is now retired, also in Suffolk and is widowed. The last I heard Peter Booley had retired from being Headmaster at a school in Halesworth. The camp at Witsun was fun - tents and caravans, visits to Suffolk Show, Beccles open-air swimming pool, Lowestoft Fish Market. And all in those BMC Mini-buses given by the Variety Club.

I remember my first tetanus vaccines - and I was given it at the same time as everyone else. I remember having seen the needles being scared and told to pull myself together as I only had to do it once whereas the pupils had to do it every day. I was full of admiration for those who had to inject. And as I recall those were large reuseable needles that had to be sterilised too - not modern fine needles. I still hate needles to this day!

The woodwork room was above a gym on Weltje Road. I never recall the gym being used - but Dad did the woodwork and I remember a Scalextric set in adjacent room.

I cannot remember who, but someone told me that Lord Weltje was bricked up in the cellars by the boiler room - and he now haunted the place. I was scared to go down there alone for months after. The name Kathleen Gallagher / Granagher rings a bell - I also seem to recall her being hit by a car in Weltje Road - sorry Kathleen if you are reading this and it wasn't you!!!!.

I did find a few photos and other memories when I cleared out my mother's house after she died. I have kept them - but in storage so not easily accessible (I am abroad) - but if anyone is interested, when I do find them I will post them somewhere. I am seeing June this weekend - and I know she has some photos of that era - so can scan them if anyone is interested - although not sure where to post them.

I will close now. Not sure what the rules here are about PMs - but I am registered on here with my proper FB / e-mail address so should receive messages.
 
Hi there - I've just found this forum as I was looking for references to Palingswick House. I worked there in 1964 (Sister Laffineur - don't suppose anyone will remember!) I do remember Mr & Mrs Otterburn of course, and remember some of the children's names - Karen Judge, Andrew Leach, Andrew Baranoskos (sp?) Roger Bunce, Paul Gillingham - and many more I can't put names to just now........50 years takes a bit of a toll on the little grey cells......
I enjoyed my short stay with you and would like to think everyone benefitted from their time there and went on to greater things - and I thank you for being such a pleasure to work with & care for.
 
Hi Sister Laffy
It has taken so long to hear from ex staff of Palingswick House. I have to say that it is only when you have left there that you realise how much being there did to help one first accept diabetes and then control it. I left in June 1967 and went to work as an apprentice at Shepperton Studios. Do you remember Mr Evans the vicar at St Peter's Church? In 1972 I married Lynne and he came over from Chiswick to Bexleyhesth to marry us. It has lasted too and we celebrate our 43rd anniversary in November. I do a lot ov voluntary work now for Diabetes UK and also have advice and help stands at our local hospitals and health centre to give something back. I have been on a pump for the last 15 months and would never go back on MDI. I still love my football and music especially Leyton Orient and The Hollies. Sadly not all friends from PH are still with us but I for one have no intention of popping my clogs yet. I keep in touch with Kevin Baum from back then. I owe Palingswick House my life as I would probably not be here now if I hadn't been there. Thank you sister for all you and the rest of the staff especially Sister Connors and Miss Wilson did for us
 
Hi Julien,
Wow now there is a surprise I did not expect to be reading a post from anymore contacts from my Palingswick days. I hope you are in good health. I am fine retired now but doing voluntary work for Diabetes UK as much as possible. Was sorry to hear your Mum had passed away. How is your Dad? He had a difficult job when he took over from Mr Otterburn as his were big shoes to step into. Personally both he and your Mum were so helpful to me because of the difficult times I had at home. I remember staying at PH for some school holidays as home was not a good place to be. All the staff were so supportive. Palingswick will always have a big part in my life as apart from teaching us to control our Diabetes and accept it living with other diabetics and going to different schools in the borough made me realise I was not the only one who had this complaint called diabetes. I went to Christopher Wren School. and PH was home.
Great to hear from you.
 
 
Hi Juilen I remember yourself your sister and of course mum and dad very well, you mention Paul oaten he was in my dormitory I also remember the BDA camp and a guy who I can't remember but wore no shoes. I remember Marion and Emily and the cook in the kitchen who always gave me lumps of cheese when I was hungry and remember her being very large. It would be so nice if we could get some of the others together if we could find them and have a reunion I was at PH from 1963-68 it is so nice that you have poped up on this forum I started many years ago my email is g6zdp@hotmail.co.uk
 

Oh yes, Vic - I remember dishing out wads of cheese! I can hear now a lad called Roger Bunce asking me for some, but I thought he'd said,"can I have some Chewies" (sweeties in tubes as I remember) and said, Chewies? I don't think so! "No", he said, "I said CHEESE......" Ooops, silly me.... hurried off to fetch him some.. Why do I remember that from 50 - count 'em - 50 years ago....?
 
golly max just seen your post
i getting the grey cells working i think i left in 1963 april what a fun place digging tunnels filling them in the big bedroom 6/8 beds at one time lots of crystal sets wired to get radio stations.
i was at addison sec modern school at shepherds bush and the first year i think trolleys buses ran up and down king street
very bad smogs as well still 60 years on how well did they do to live this long vic hill
 
all those names i do remember also one lad was coloured inky johnson think he came from johasburgh , also a lad with leg irons think he attended stoke mandvilla the soil in the back yard was used to build dens the old type of urine test 5 drops of urine and ten drops of water colour blue was good orange was bad.
do you remember one of the wardens had a sunbeam talbot car and done up a flat in ham stead heath
my name was vic hill nickname bucket
poss 1958 to 1962
 
Just a quick update - my Father, Bill Niemeyer, died last Wednesday (24th July) at his home in France aged 87.
 
Just a quick update - my Father, Bill Niemeyer, died last Wednesday (24th July) at his home in France aged 87.

I am sorry. It sounds like he made a bit difference to the lives of the children in his care, and will be remembered fondly.
 
I have been working through Dad's paperwork and found a few photos that may kindle some memories.

I have placed them on flickr - but this site blocks the link - so if someone can tell me how to post the link that would be helpful.

Thanks
 
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Hi .
My husband David Hendon was at PH. from approx 1953 t0 1959, He attended Addison school where he passed his 11 plus going to Wandsworth Grammer School..\Also he remembers the smog and trolley bus. remembers Mr Jennings with his grey 3 piece suit.and the crystal sets.Certainly Mr & Mrs Otterbourne.

David is now 80 years old and in fairly good health, He has had type 1 diabetes since the age of 8,( 72 yrs) As a child of 8 years old it was a huge move to live in PH from his family home in Birmingham, his father and uncle used to visit him
 
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