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Pre-diabetes and my mother

EmilyDoherty

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Hi all,

First off, this is breaking my heart to write this as I am in such a state about what to do.

My mother has recently (2 days ago) been diagnosed with pre-diabetes. She is a little overweight, smokes heavily and does no exercise. She is a relatively healthy eater, but also had a hysterctomy a few years ago and has been suffering with bladder infections of late - the final prompt for the blood test recently.

I do not want to lose my mum. I do not want this to develop to type 2 diabetes. I am 28 years old and married, but am in pieces as I want to make sure it doesn't happen but do not know how. I realise I am being very pessimistic, but I am so scared. She is 54 years old, and my fatehr and her are seperated. My brother is at University, my sister is in Greece, I am the eldeset and in the same city as her - London.

Can anyone give me concrete advice on the best:

* Type of diet? Is it a low glycemic one? I realise a healthy diet is the key, but want to know for sure what she should avoid/eat lots of

* Form of exercise? I want to take her walking everyday, to/from work for example - but is there a "best" exercise to do to help her body quickly?

Other things that I just NEED to know about this condition? I want to do everything in my power to help her, and will be moving in with her for a month from Sunday.

I am sorry to be so emotional about this, but I am finding it so hard to fathom - my mother may become diabetic.

Any help anyone can give me - books I can get?? Support groups in South East London?? I would be eternally grateful.

Thank you

Emily
 
Welcome to the Forum Emily,

We give the information below to all new Diabetics in the hope that it will help them learn about their Diabetes. Although your mum is not yet Diabetic the information on diet may be useful to her and help her lose some weight. This will reduce her Insulin resistance and bring down her blood sugar levels.

A well controlled diabetic is not the end of the World, Emily. There are many other conditions that are much worse ! I hope the information helps.

 
Hi Emily, and welcome!

Sue is right - Type 2 diabetes is definitely not the end of the world, nor is it a death sentence! If your mother (with your help) takes control now, she may never even get full-blown diabetes, though she will have to be in charge of things for the rest of her life. Your mum and I seem to be about in the same situation - I am Type 2, but was diagnosed very early, and I don't intend to get any worse. The differences - I stopped smoking 10 years ago, and I'm very overweight!

I am confident that I can keep control of the diabetes and fully expect to live a long and (more) active life. The diagnosis can be devastating to begin with, but read round this forum, get as much knowledge as you can, and give your mother as much support as possible while she changes her lifestyle. There are lots of people on here who will give you as much help and support as they can.

The main thing is to cut down on carbs, as the info that Sue gave you says. Get a carb counter book, work out what your mother is eating now, and see where she can make changes. It does work, I promise!

I have a Type 1 friend who became diabetic in her early 40s and is now over 90. She has a better social life than I do! :shock: so you see, there is no need to despair.

Viv
 
If she cuts the carbs NOW it will make a huge difference. I was diagnosed 3 years ago and it shook my world into good health.. I am loving life and eating heaps of tasty healthy food and growing an amazing vegetable garden. I will always be diabetic but hopefully my children won't become diabetic (well, maybe two out of three will not as the third is already carb dependent, low income and living in the UK). Celebrate the warning and hopefully she will heed it. The change has to come from her.
 
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