HI,
I am 36 weeks with my 2nd child. I know exactly what you mean about the worry about controling blood sugar. I also had a mc a few years ago. No one ever said that it was done to my diabetes...but I did wonder. At the time my control was not good. With my daughter, I tried my up most best to control my NG....Tje consulatant gave me teh scare treatment about teh dangers of high BG...and I think that I toook it very seriously, and then got told off for being too low! It was the same this time round too. For me, the 1st 12 weeks, my BG tended to be quite high...then teh next 12 weeks, I was low, and had quite a few hypos. Folowing this, it is a matter of going from fortnight to fortnight..and constantly adjcuting my insulin needs.
When I was pregnant with my little girl, despite my best efforts, my blood pressure took off, and I ended up being indusced at 36 weeks. If I make it through 2mro though...I will have got further with baby 2. This pregnancy has been far easier to be honest.
The good news is, that the good habits that I was scared into during my last pregnancy have stayed with me...so for me, despite my bp issues last time round, pregnancy was good for me! Of course, the most important thing is that my little girl...despite being a bit early, has thrived...and is now a cheeky toddler.
Good luck, and if I can help in any way...send me a pm.
Take care