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kate888

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hi All,
Is premature ejaculation related to type 1diabetes?
My fiance have retrograde ejaculation.. but he also come very fast ... is there a link in between ?
 
hi, I've never heard of that being a symptom before, I've heard it being the other way around with erectile problems but I'm no expert..... maybe your just too good looking?
 
both can be diabetic related, prior nerve damage and current medication. he may be a young man not looking after his diabetes and getting early complications. this may be just the obvious symptoms
Is he able to ask the dr to be referred to a specialist sexual dysfunction hospital clinic?
as you may have been reading on the net. Most diabetics have or will have sexual dysfunction, it comes with the disease.

If you were my daughter, I'd say..
it sounds like he hasn't looked after his diabetes, I guess he's around your age. probability is he will have further complications now or as he ages, including eye, kidney and heart
From your perspective, it is doubtful you will have a non-diabetic normal sex life.
Are you able to get some advice/counselling ? being a young woman in love, doesn't necessarily translate to living with someone with a chronic disease, you need to go in with your eyes open
 
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kate888 said:
hi All,
Is premature ejaculation related to type 1diabetes?
My fiance have retrograde ejaculation.. but he also come very fast ... is there a link in between ?
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Kate, first up, if you have already kicked the poor guy into touch on account of the post above then please go get him back.

In my experience, everything under the sun is related to T1 diabetes despite the fact that a million other things could be responsible. There could be a whole myriad of reasons for your fiancés early departures and the last thing I would do is stress over it too much cause that will only make it worse. If it's a huge concern go to the doc and see if they can help.

As for the above post, if you were my daughter then I'd say talk to him, try and figure out if there's anything going on in his head or anything else physically that's out of the ordinary. As he's your fiancée then I assume you love the guy and plan on spending your life with him. Life will throw a lot more worse things at you than a bit of premature ejaculation or quick cumming so writing him off as a poorly controlled diabetic and a liability to a young woman in love would be ridiculous.

Final thoughts - very few men (although they won't admit it) last very long in the pleasure zone - look at nature, animals are in an out with no time to shake it all about as it's a functional process - and very few women want men to be hammering away in the pleasure zone for too long. However, there's a whole lot more to a healthy sexual relationship than the in and out so put more emphasis on that. Also, and please excuse the vulgarity of this next comment, if he does go off quick, give him 5mins and then, if he can get it up again he may last all night.
 

thank you for thisssss...
i won't give up on him for this.... i know that to have baby we will have to do in vitro we talked abt it and i'm fine with the idea.. but we never discussed anything abt the premature ejaculation it is hard for me to talk with him about it bcz i dnt wanna make him feel less confident abt himself (the retrograde ejaculation problem already makes him sad deep inside).
 
Scardoc said:
Oh, yeah that makes a difference. If you were my daughter Kate, I'd ditch that zero and get yourself a hero.
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i really feel i wanna die or disappear......... it is so hard for me to make this steppp.... i feel weak inside to leave someone i love despite how much he is hurting me specially knowing that he loves me so muchh... it is like am in love with a man of problems of all kind...... i feel am going crazy cz there is tooooo muchhh burden on my heart
 
From the other thread linked above it sounds like you've done all you can for this man and given the relationship every chance. To leave would not be weak. It takes more strength to leave everything you know and start afresh.

Again, if you were my daughter, I'd ask you to remove everything about his various conditions from the equation, remove all excuses or contributing factors, and ask yourself: "does he treat me how I deserve to be treated?". It doesn't sound like it.
 

not when he's mad and i argue with him. he tells me i begggg youuu when you see me getting angry just leave me to calm down (this is what am not good at) i'm trying but it is hard when your disputing with someone and suddenly he decides to end the subject and you should end your talking to avoid him getting angry and crazy. he told me that he did consult a psychiatrist to help him control his anger management, and that he told him when he feel he is going to get angry that he ends the subject and talk later. He asked me to help him on this. it is not a easy challenge controlling urself when u are soooo mad abt something...
Sometimes he have mood swings but they are related to his BG. (i cannot get mad at him if he was mean to me while he is low...)
 
its sounds like some of the posts here are telling you to leave him, is that the feel I am getting or am I misunderstood..........?
 
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