Hi @Allan4acre, Your daughter does not need to always eat everything on the plate. She can decide how much she wishes to eat in terms of carbs and protein if she counts that as well. Then inject for that.
The only issue really is if she wishes to allow for a very slowly absorbed meal such as an Indian curry ect in which she might elect to have a percentage at meal time and another 5 of her dose later.
Thinking outside the square, could she not enquire the day before what is on the menu ?
There is no need to be so picky.
Another issue with injecting at the table is about safely disposing of sharps without risk to others.
Hi @evilclive, There are ways for her to solve her issues as I have suggested. As long as she is not inclined to think a bit laterally she will be stuck.Kitedoc, with all due respect, that's a pretty unhelpful reply. "There is no need to be so picky" is just wrong.
There's many cases where I won't know till the food is in front of me, or even tasted, how much I'm going to eat and hence how much I'm going to need to inject.
Re safely disposing of sharps - is it a long time since you had pen needles? They're trivial to safely handle temporarily - I put mine in my pocket after folding the bit which sticks into the vial down, or back in the pot I took the new one from, in both cases to dispose of safely later.
Yes there are ways to solve things and I have given some. As long as someone does not think about the problem and ways around it the problem remains.Picky?! Are you joking? Please tell me you are.
What if she was to choose a meal, bolus accordingly then get to the cafeteria and there's none left?
Dispose of sharps in a used test strip pot. There are ways and means around everything.
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Hi @evilclive, There are ways for her to solve her issues as I have suggested. As long as she is not inclined to think a bit laterally she will be stuck.
I am talking specifically about the before meal insulin which seemed to be the issue once the other part was clarified,That's simply not the case. Looking for avoidance strategies and suggesting that she is at fault for not doing so ("picky") is not a good long term tactic. With appropriate help, eg calling on the experience of others, or even involving the union, it should be possible to carry on testing in public and injecting with meals like the rest of us do, which is the best outcome.
No comment on your claim that sharps disposal will be a problem?
Thanks.
This is a message I got from my daughter this morning......
The problem isn't that they aren't offering me a place to do it, it's that they aren't allowing me to do it with my food in the bistro - so excluding me from eating with the others, UNLESS I do it in advance of going in, so I would have to do my insulin without my food in front of me, and guess the amount to give, because I wouldn't be able to see the amount of carbs on my plate. Which I'm not happy with. I could take a packed lunch but that's inconveniencing me, and saying I can't do the same as anyone else. So......I don't know if I'm just making a big fuss about nothing???
I have said this in other threads: from my experience as a diabetes, not as professional advice or opinion:
1) injecting insulin is a medical procedure. Telling someone to go to the loo to inject their injection shows a distinct lack of education on the part of the persons giving the order as well as a large deficit in understanding the sensibilities of the situation..
It sounds like a mandatory education session with the headmaster and staff could help educate all to a better sense of what is required, including about recognition and treatment of hypos. Maybe someone from Diabetes UK etc etc.
2) medical procedures are not carried out in the loo unless they are unavoidable emergencies.
3) if the attitude of the headmaster does not change, then in addition to the laws protecting staff, the question is: why is the sick bay not located in the toilet area?
4) injecting insulin at a communal eating table, bistro etc requires discretion and great care and is best avoided. Some people, including 2 of my relatives, faint at the sight of someone giving themselves an injection. And the issue about sharps is not only about having a safe place to store them after the injection, it is about the possibility of being jostled in a busy bistro, lunchroom etc during injecting and that leading to a needle stick injury - a very serious safety risk. And an insurance company is likely to say that injecting in a busy bistro carries a fore-seeable risk of needle stick injury.
One could argue that in a quiet restaurant that the person turning in their seat towards a wall nearby and injecting that way lowers the risk but it is still better to be to have a designated area (such as the law provides) where an injection can be carried out discretely and with much less risk.
I am not in agreeance with any diabetic stating that they can inject their insulin where and how they wish, as though that is their right.
5) living with diabetes is about problem-solving and not being so restricted in thinking and acting that problems arise and escalate. hence my comment about thinking outside the square, and not making problems for oneself.
So recognise silly statements for what they are: such as you have to eat the very moment after you inject your insulin or that you have to eat everything on the plate (is that where the dumb idea called the Eatwell plate comes from or visa versa))?, that you cannot take your own lunch in or that to eat things that are best avoided you just push up the insulin dose and expect that to work.
With 4) I say all diabetics injecting insulin have a responsibility towards public health which includes minimising the risk of needle stick injury and achieving safe disposal of sharps. Those responsibilities outweigh individual rights. Most people may not notice someone giving themselves an injection but if blatantly done that does nothing for the majority of diabetics who are trying to be discrete and careful.I'm happy with 1, 2 and 3. I disagree with 4, and I suspect we'll never agree on that. I'm discreet with injections, so most people never notice, and re sharps - I've never had a problem with being jostled while injecting, and no insurance company is going to specify diabetic-specific conditions for an eating area, that's just scaremongering. 5 I sort of agree with, though probably not for the reasons you think. Injecting based on what's on your plate and you're going to eat is a normal thing to do - changing food for a given insulin dose is the wrong way round, change insulin dose to match food. And I'll happily push an insulin dose up for things people would say are best avoided - sticky toffee pudding anybody? Like you say, outside the box : don't be restricted by what people like the headteacher or other people trying to say you can't do things say.
(one thought - both you and Chowie are from the Antipodes, and both have concerns about injecting in public. I wonder if there's a cultural difference going on - I think the UK people on here are generally on the inject-and-be-damned side, and it might be that people generally don't worry about it here)
In Australia many jobs I have applied for they ask Do you have a disability? If so what? There are laws that protect you against discriminatin (cough cough). Unless the employer is trying to get public sympthay etc (we need a few people in wheel chairs etc), if 2 people are about the same or even if the disabled person interviews slighty better they will miss out on the job.
An interesting point, those that wish to claim the protection undert the disability act, do you declare before you get the job that you have a disability?
With 4) I say all diabetics injecting insulin have a responsibility towards public health which includes minimising the risk of needle stick injury and achieving safe disposal of sharps. Those responsibilities outweigh individual rights. Most people may not notice someone giving themselves an injection but if blatantly done that does nothing for the majority of diabetics who are trying to be discrete and careful.
Just because a needle stick injury has not occurred when you have ben injecting your insulin does not prove that it cannot happen. Do you have any idea the anguish people who sustain such an injury go through, waiting to know whether they have contacted some infectious illness? And just because we can say, no way do we diabetics have any infectious illnesses, those suffering a sharps injury do not know that and quite frankly neither do we, for absolute sure until all the tests are completed.
If injury or accident like a sharps injury are foreseeable the onus is on each injector to take steps to minimise the possibility of that injury happening. Our individual rights are subsumed by the rights of us not to suffer harm.
No, we do not have to be sealed in a sterilised room in order to inject or provided with a security screen to avoid upsetting others BUT we have to give a **** about those around us.
And 5) most of us are not out eating at bistros etc all the time. Many of us stick to a diet which keeps our BSL and weight under control and that can mean not eating everything on a plate where we have had no control over the food being provided.
Those of us who are still in honeymoon phase have more leeway of course but it is naive to think that upping insulin to allow for sticky toffee pudding every day is going to necessarily work and not all of us have the opportunity and ability to burn the excess BSL off with exercise.
Weight control is important and scoffing everything on the plate plus desserts is not the way to happy BSLs.
We can of course ask for a fruit platter or cheese instead of the sticky pudding where the eating place has the flexibility.
@evilclive, You are trying to quote the experience of all those using pen injections without having a clue what those statistics are. Good one !! I am not doubting that many do take care but accidents can happen and accidents can often be prevented.Sorry, that's just a load of scaremongering tosh. It's very easy to give a **** about those around us, and that doesn't necessitate injecting somewhere else. Dealing with the sharp pointy things is easy - take enough care and it's fine, and with pen needles, especially the short ones we're using these days, the amount of care required is really quite low.
You've put yourself into a corner, and now you're coming up with ever more ridiculous arguments to support your position. Step back, consider that those of us still using the pens every day might have an idea of what we're doing and have the experience to back that up. Literally tens of thousands of injections each - that's a lot of experience.
I am just asking for due consideration on both sides.I don’t have a horse in this race, but in my view people should be tolerant of others.
If a diabetic needs to test or inject, then they should do so. If anyone is offended then they can be offended. It won’t hurt them, and they’re not likely to get stabbed.
I am just asking for due consideration on both sides.
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