Sorry to here your news but glad you found this board. I was diagnosed 3 years ago and the support here has been amazing, so nice to be able to ask people who deal with the issues day to day.
I've just started on the pump, just over a month ago now. I'm finding it's going really well so far, however I do have to be really accurate in counting my carbs, a small error seems to have a much bigger effect on my blood sugar on the pump than it did on injections. Even though I felt I had got to grips with things on injections I have had to learn a whole lot more. The pump has lots of advantages, but I wouldn't say it has been an easy option.
I would defiantly investigate the pump, the ability to have very small doses, and to be able to have less insulin when I exercise is already making quite a difference. I still have some work to do getting my background rates sorted through that day though.
The pump cannulas are different to the one your daughter probably had in hospital, they don't go into a vein, just under the skin. I found quite a few videos on you tube of people inserting their pump cannulas, it really helped me get over that part of the process. Do you think your daughter would be willing to watch a couple?
Here's one to get you started
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Wj1xH8AM7Y
There is also this one form the same person about over coming her needle phobia
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlHdQcY-u38