Yes I know exactly what you mean. That's very unfortunate about the nurse you're talking about but at least she recognised her heart wasn't in it any more- there are too many nurses who become bitter and don't care enough. I haven't had much contact with DSNs since leaving paediatric team and joining adult team, but last time I saw my local diabetic nurse, I was nervous as I'd lost over a stone in weight and wanted the scale to have a decent reading... When I stepped on she said "oh dear!!" and laughed. I'm seeing her next week for the first time since that incident and now I'm just dreading it. I dislike her so much for her comment. Especially as I'm not even hugely overweight. I think my BMI was about 26 last time. Grrr