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nicole_1135

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Hello everyone!
I'm Nicole, I was diagnosed with diabetes (type 1) in 1999, at the age of 9. As a child/young adolescent I had good control, mostly because of my mother making sure that I did! However, since about the age of 15 anything resembling good control has been non existent. Up until last week, I never tested my blood sugar or watched what I ate or even injected regularly.
I decided about 3 weeks ago that I need to sort my life and my health out and summoned up the courage to meet with my nurse (whose calls I had been avoiding since I saw her last July). Since Monday I have been testing my blood sugar and doing my injections and insulin dosages properly.
The thing i'm worried about is I tend to have these epiphanies, get back on the straight and narrow and do everything as I'm supposed to, for about a month. Then I fall back off the wagon and my sugars are all over the place.
I though that maybe if I sought some extra support I might actually make it this time, and kick this thing in the a**e once and for all. I know that my lifestyle has to change, and has changed so far. But I want it to actually become a lifestyle change and not just a whim that I get bored of within 2 weeks. I want to be healthy and I want a good Hb1AC.
Any advice anyone can give me would be very very much appreciated.
Thanks!
Nicole
 
Nicole...you're certainly not the 1st to fall off the bandwagon!!!!!and to then try to climb back on board again!!!!! You'll do it.

I think the main thing is: you have to have a good balance of things in your life- i.e probably everything in moderation so to speak..... that way it isn't so hard to handle the diabetes.

When I was first diagnosed I was brilliant, and I fell off, and got back on board. I was lucky not to get any complications from my falling off days, and I count my lucky stars for that-as I must have had many!!!!

You will do it, but you have to have a balnce of the diabetes with enjoying yourself. You are young, and I guess not wanting to stand out from the crowd with your diabetes.....as you may have had this sort of thing imposed on you from your first being diagnosed and under parental control...that is only a guess though....

You will get back to handling your diabetes with your lifestyle....it should not be one or the other....

Loads of advice and support will come from here....glad that you have taken the first steps to climb back on board....well done for just doing that....
 
Welcome to the Forum, Nicole.

You've come to the right place for good advice and support !

You will find plenty of other Type1's here whose experience can answer your questions plus give you the kick up the a**se you were looking for ! :lol: :lol:

You are right that it is a lifestyle change and the secret to that is to tailor it to your life style so that you won't get bored with it.

Here is the advice that Ken and I give to new members. I hope you may pick up some tips from it.

 
Hi donnellysdogs!
Thank you so much for your kind words.
I've promised myself that i'm going to be completely honest with myself and everyone else about how i'm managing my diabetes. Past nurses and dr's have been furious with me when i've tried to be open about how i'm doing/feeling and have treated me like i'm an imbecile. I was terrified last week when I saw my nurse and told her how **** I was doing, but her reaction and yours have strengthened my resolve to be open about my diabetes.
I'm so used to feeling guilty and ashamed about how rubbish I am with testing and injecting, it's odd to feel proud for making that first step! I really appreciate how welcome you've made me feel on here and it makes me want to do the best that I possibly can so that I might be able to help someone else in the future.
Thank you

Hello Sugarless Sue,
Thank you for your advice about diet and carbohydrates. I have in the past very tentatively tried carb counting and have been referred to a course in 6 weeks time. I'll definitely take this advice on board and involve my nurse aswell as I want to have the best possible control of my sugar levels.

Sincerely,
Nicole
 
Hi,

Well done for trying too get yourself in order.

Similar age, similar occupation - or lack of - Student and whilst not being Type 1 can sympathise too a certain degree, since being diagnosed I have given up all the usual student delights - alcohol and take-aways, lost 3 stone, 5 stone in total and have discovered a whole new life.

I know it is incredibly hard and not fair but unfortunately these are the cards we've been dealt, I have embraced it and am doing and feeling great.

It's seem you lack some self-discipline, all I can recommend for that is taking up some kind of sport which aids in your effort - Rowing for me.

I hope it all works out well for you and wish you all the best,

Ben
 
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