Hi Cold Ethyl (again). I read about 'saggy bits' because I wanted to avoid them and running to tone up isn't on the cards this time. I read that often it is actually stubborn subcutaneous fat causing a residual loose jiggly bit and that if you can shift it the skin should tighten back. It's meant to be dependent on age and genetics though. Like you I think i might resort to surgery if I were left with loose jiggly bits and boobs at my knees!I've only just started my weight loss journey but can relate to so much of that. I have a uni reunion in August and part of me is dreading going and seeing people who last saw me at nearly my thinnest. Part of me says that people should judge you on what's inside but I know that I don't always measure up to that ideal, so why would/should they? I have always had a very up and down( mostly up) relationship with my weight but really piled it on when I took hormone treatment to conceive and then developed post- natal anxiety and OCD. I've self-medicated with carbs for years to feel better only to find it's given me diabetes which is another stick to beat myself with and obviously something else to be anxious about.
I do worry about all the saggy bits and pieces when I lose weight but am trying to exercise gently alongside weight loss to help tone what I can up. And I've not ruled out surgery if I felt that psychologically I need it , post weight loss.
Anyway your weight loss is great and long may it continue. I look forward to finding some of my long lost bones again. It'll be like an episode of Time Team.
or your big feet ha haS@@t sorry mate - that's just how I felt at the time!!!!!!! I was very apple shaped and forgot what my feet looked like. And I was very clumsy with it. I know some people can be in proportion and elegant - not me!
I haven't lost me big gob though unfortunately!
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You know what to do about the jeans?Losing weight is just great, friends and colleagues mention it without any prompting, I can tie my shoelaces more easily, my wife and daughter see me visibly shrinking around the face. Most of my extra weight is 'beer belly' so that will take a while to shift assuming it's visceral fat, nonetheless I've lost about 3 inches around the waist. I've always looked slim from behind, it's when I turn round that it goes wrong! Main downside at the moment is my jeans keep slipping so I look like a teenage rapper ...
I've posted here because I suddenly don't have enough power to post in 'discussions'. Sorry.
Firstly, I'm 56 and was never overweight until my 30s. Long story which I don't want to detail but basically I always had a big appetite but was a fitness junkie. I could fluctuate by 1.5 stones but still remain within my weight range. I guess the bad eating habits have always been there. Compulsive eating and no exercise have resulted in doubling my weight. I have recently lost a lot of weight, since diabetes arrived. I still have at least 3 stones to lose.
My mum said to me the other day, "ooh Kim, you are disappearing!"
I replied that I feel more like my old self again, I feel that I'm back.
I should add that my mum and younger sister have always been overweight so they didn't bat an eyelid when I put it on. My work colleagues didn't know me when I was slim and they are amazed at the change. I must say I get a bit squirmy when they mention it. I don't like the attention.
So, now I will walk around my local town without fear that I will bump into someone that knew me when I was slim. I also take more interest in clothes and the way I look.
One thing I've noticed recently is that I can feel my bones. Hip bones, shoulders and now collar bones. It seems strange. My shape is different too. My bottom is no longer the largest part of me.
I've also noticed, as I get closer to my goal, that I have some saggy bits! Inner thighs and I think my tummy will end up dropping with loose skin too. And then there's the bingo wings! But hey, I'm not bothering too much as nobody will see me naked ... I'll just be a clothes horse instead ;-)
I've read that sometimes people find it hard to adjust to being thinner. I know I don't have to lot a wide route in shops now so that's good.
I've been divorced a long time now ... Not sure I could start another relationship but then I couldn't because I was overweight too! I did consider putting an ad in the paper for a hunk who likes big ladies ha ha ha
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Losing weight is just great, friends and colleagues mention it without any prompting, I can tie my shoelaces more easily, my wife and daughter see me visibly shrinking around the face. Most of my extra weight is 'beer belly' so that will take a while to shift assuming it's visceral fat, nonetheless I've lost about 3 inches around the waist. I've always looked slim from behind, it's when I turn round that it goes wrong! Main downside at the moment is my jeans keep slipping so I look like a teenage rapper ...
I find duct tape is strong enough for a cheap face lift. Just need to consider it for taping my big gob now.
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